I know this is wrong, but I can't seem to cut him off
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Hello everyone!
So, I joined a company as an intern in July 2026. I met this guy in the IT department who is 6 years older than me.
We started talking—a lot. Pure din office mein we used to text each other, and he sat pretty close to my seat, so we would constantly exchange glances. He also used to flirt with me a little.
One day, we were crossing the road and, out of nowhere, he held my hand while we crossed. 😭 That was basically the last straw for me.
I started liking him.
After about a month of talking, we planned to go out one day. That's when he told me that he'd lied to me and was actually in a relationship—and had been for the past 5 years. 🫠
I told him that we should stop talking because it felt wrong. But every time I say that, he convinces me that we're "just friends" and that we're not doing anything wrong.
Technically, we aren't cheating on his girlfriend. But it still feels wrong to me.
Honestly, I get this weird mistress wali feeling even though nothing physical has happened. I know he's in a relationship, We both know I have feelings for him, and we know this isn't going anywhere.
I've even told him that we should block each other and completely cut contact, but I don't know why I'm so attached that I can't actually do it.
**Context for the last chat- My project was going to change and location bhi change hone waali thi, toh uspe he said ki
"aapko dekhne nhi milega phir aap gye toh"
So, what do I do? Am I overthinking this "just friends" thing, or is this situation as inappropriate as it feels to me?