New friends?
Hi everyone! Cancer here! Recently met an Aquarius and the instant connection was amazing. I’ve not clicked with anyone like that in a long time. We have so much in common, yet we’re still so different, it’s intriguing! We’ve hung out a handful of times, each time I feel like Ive gotten to know her more and more. I can sense she is little reserved still, but has told me a lot about herself. In person, the conversations and laughs never stops. But outside of in person contact, she is very aloof and hard to get a hold of. If I’m not asking her to make plans, I will hardly get a response about anything else in her life. She has never said no to hanging out though, which I have mostly initiated. I really enjoy being around her, her happiness and fun attitude is really contagious. She never makes me feel judged and I truly feel like I can be myself around her. She makes me a littler nervous though as I am unsure if she actually wants to be friends or I something to pass her time. As a cancer, I value my relationship and don’t like to make friendships if they won’t be long lasting. Her aloofness and ability to unattach emotionally gives me whiplash. In person she is so attentive and fun. Through text, I feel like just a stranger, so I try not to reach out too often lol. Is this normal for an Aquarius or should I expect this friendship to go no where? The cancer in me wants to ignore her when she responds days later but that’s the pettiness in me coming out. Instead I respond and act unbothered even though it does bother me when she resumes convos dayssss later. But We’ve hung out a handful of times already, so I feel like she has to consider me some sort of friend to keep hanging out with me right?