r/aquarius

I’m an Aqua sun and my hubby is Cancer sun and we’ve been together (married) for almost two years but I never find any success stories with this combo. Also, if you wanna share any horror stories feel free because I’m curious!

Or is it just the two that I know?

Hello everyone! Just wanted to see if there’s anyone that relates here.
Probably not that crazy of a question, however, I thought I would ask and see if there’s some relatability anyways.

I’m an Aquarius sun and a Leo moon, I actually have a ton of Aquarius placements lol- Sun, Uranus, Mercury, Neptune…. It’s a lot.

I grew up around a lot of old folks, it definitely influenced my tastes, as well as that feeling of nostalgia for me. Now that I’m older, I feel extremely out of place in the modern era.

It isn’t JUST an aesthetic appreciation for the era, I just feel exceptionally drawn to it. Like soul wise. I probably had a previous life during that time because it feels like home.

I acknowledge in its whole the bad and the good, the bigotry at the time, the history and protests so prevalent during that time speak to my soul- I do it in our modern era as well.
I’m not romanticizing it- it just feels more suited for a person like me.

Anyways, just wondering if there’s some other deeper meaning behind that besides being Aquarius dominant and that being the supposed “Age of Aquarius”.

For me, I imagine it to be the rise of radical individual freedom and reasoning rather than just AI, tech innovation, and playing God solely.

Hi! I have a bit of a “headache” with this Aquarius man. I am not fully convinced he is interested. To explain from the beginning, I was going through hard time for a while and whenever I was at the gym, I saw him there and he unconsciously became somewhat of a steady point there, even though we would not talk. He felt like a calm person. I would see him stare from time to time and we slowly got to a point where it was a stealing glances war. In the end I got the courage and threw him a smile and we would say hi in the gym and got to introduce to one another. After that we started talking, he shared different facts about himself which I found nice. We share the same mindset in some ways. He would walk around the gym, look for me if he was training in another part, check if I was there then leave. Stare from afar. He teases me about my weights, about taking too long breaks, teases me about everything really. Recently he has been stressed at work and I saw he was having bad days so I gave him space and asked him how he felt. Sometimes he would explain he has a bad days and keep distance which does not bother me, I can understand. We even had a sort of fall out in which we both had a bad day and we were kind of short with each other (which made me think that that was the end of it), but the next day I went to the gym he just stuck closer, talked a lot, as if wanting to check if we were okay? I somehow feel like he allows me in his bubble (he does not mind if I stick close to him, use his stuff, take his phone from him, I can pat his back or I jokingly hit his biceps and he does not react or pull away; he’d put his stuff close to mine; lets me know if he has a bad day or what is it about) which is nice and I love it but I also don’t want to confuse it between being just friendship or him actually be interested. I think to myself that if he were interested he would have made a move to go out of the gym and maybe for a coffee or a walk in the park. But he did nothing of the sort and I don’t want to assume anything at this point. But he is kind of confusing me, why stare after me and be disappointed if I don’t come to the gym or leave too early or things like this if you are not interested in any other way? We have known each other for almost three months already and we have seen each other daily almost.

Any thoughts or advice on this please? Thank you!

Me and my "friend" are planning on going away for two days, maybe in some forest or some nice place w a cabin or something. I was trying to come up w things that can entertain us easily, and that are also different and weird, lol. I'm a scorpio, he's an Aqua, what can I say. Anyways, any help would be great! We're both into astrology and tarot if that gives a hint

I'll start.

favorite earth sign: tied between capricorn and taurus. taurus for friendship, capricorn for lovers.

favorite air sign: Aquarius

favorite fire sign: Aries

favorite water sign: scorpio

least favorites: cancer, aries, (though, tbh, i really like fire signs mainly.) gemini, Virgo (i cannot stand Virgo.)

what about you guys?

I just ended a short-lived situationship with one and the entire thing felt like emotional whiplash.

On one hand, he spoiled me BAD… fancy dinners, concerts, random adventures, flowers, teaching me chess + rock climbing, and we could genuinely nerd out together for hours. The chemistry was insane too and you could tell I was definitely his first unique baddie.

But over time I noticed he’d randomly go off on me over the smallest things, and anytime I tried explaining my perspective he’d get super defensive. The final straw was him blowing up at me at the beach this weekend over something tiny, then later calling me “avoidant” because I said I didn’t want to feel like I had to shrink parts of myself around him.

We ended things yesterday and the entire ride home he kept making sly little remarks at me after I’d genuinely been considerate of his feelings the whole time. I blocked him after that because it just felt exhausting.

Like… are Aries men always this intense with Aquarius women or did I just experience a uniquely chaotic one 😭

At least I got my fave Capricorn back lol… What is it with Aries?

I got put onto anime by my ex last year, and honestly I’m still mad at myself for putting it off for so long 😭. I’ve been stuck on Naruto forever (still am lol). I know people say it’s because of the fillers, but regardless… it’s LONG to me.

Lately I’ve also been reading more to help my attention span a bit and just gain more knowledge overall. Reading is satisfying to me because I can peacefully read in my own mind without distractions.

Anyways, for those who watch anime whether you’ve been into it for years or just recently got into it too , what are your current favorites? What are you enjoying or watching right now? Drop shows AND movies 👀

I’ll go first:

Favorites:
• Jujutsu Kaisen
• Demon Slayer
• Chainsaw Man
• To Be Hero X
• I Want to Eat Your Pancreas (movie)
• A Silent Voice (movie)

Currently enjoying/watching:
• Bleach
• To Your Eternity
• Kakegurui

YALL I ALMOST FORGOT “SOLO LEVELING” IS DEFINITELY MY FAVORITE TOO, I know some of Yall are with me!