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I know we have a tendency of forgetting our dreams but I don't dream as much as before?

And when I do, it's mostly about very random things and not necessarily that can lead back to something that is happening in my life.

Does anybody else experience this too? I wish I had as many dreams as I did before but not sure what it has changed other than me, my perspective and the way I live in this world

And any pro astrologer pls feel free to share how it affects us considering we have so many fixed placements 🥲

To narrow it down i'll give some examples. Are you more attracted to elegant women that keep it simple or more to superficial ones (e.g. they get work done, botox lips, etc)

Are you more of a once and for all, or you don't believe in marriage?

This is more specific but for those who have dealt with aqua moon women, do you go along with them?

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The full moon in aquarius is exactly on my birthday, and also from what I've read the nodes will change to aquarius (nn) and leo (sn) which are opposite to my leo nn and aqua sn.

What does it mean for these to happen at the same time and what to expect? Thank you

Or try to deceive you? Or at some point will start talking behind your back?

I often hear "but it's a white lie" when in fact its not and they still use it for their own interest and theres nothing good about lies.

I find people do this just to befriend me and manipulate me into thinking they're a real one just to get close to me.

I've had so many disappointing experiences like this. Was wondering if you also experience the same

Context: we met through work, we dont work in the same department but once in a while we happen to be in the same meeting, or other shared spaces.

There have been a few meetings where it's only a few of us and we sometimes spend time standing on the way out with the rest of the colleagues, and she has lately began to move closer to me/reposition herself to face me. It's something she didnt do at the beginning and its now a pattern.

I didn't know if she was in a relationship or not at first btw.

We started talking outside work, through texts and sometimes over calls about our day and hobbies, and other deep convos about life. After some time she shared with me she has a ltr through some topic we were talking about. I wonder if she was seeking for a reaction or wanted to imply where the limit is (to be friends)

I also felt a pull towards her, but never acted on it at first, even though I didn't stop myself to make some small talk and see how she is as a person. But then her cues made me think "ok let's be cool and see where this goes, without forcing things or anything "

She is kind, very intelligent, emotionally intuitive. She's a scorpio sun and moon and I have a scorpio mars with many other fixed placements and I can feel there is mutual respect, and something feels familiar and just intense. I can say for sure I never felt anything like this when meeting anybody else, and it also kinda scared me so I kept my distance to see if I was being delusional.

Can I have some insight from you in regards to why she would act like this? I really dont feel she was doing this only to befriend me. Maybe im mistaken but i'd appreciate any other pov on this. TIA!

What's your experience?

NO. THIS IS NOT A HATE POST. BUT THIS PARTICULAR LIBRA DID PISS ME OFF TODAY. AND UNFORTUNATELY HAVE ONLY MET ONE HEALED LIBRA SO FAR SO HERE WE GO. LET ME RANT AND YES I KNOW THIS IS JUST A TOXIC PERSON THE SIGN DOES NOT MATTER BLABLABLA. Ok enough caps.

This girl is borderline psycho I must say. It's just scary to me how changing the libras i've met are. It creeps me out so much.

This one in particular literally loves me around others one minute and then she is literally trying to humble me and acting cruel still in front of others the other, like the most envious being on this earth, and then she will compliment me. She looks for ways to trigger me and then will praise me. So. fucking. weird.

When we're one on one tho, she is just vanilla, agreeing with everything I say, she becomes a people pleaser and will even ask me to share with her what I am going through. BEIATCH, WHAT???

Maybe to her this is what friendship should be like or what? Im so confused. She is another level of toxic but she really checks out all the characteristics of a unhealed libra.

I find so many people trying to force themselves into my life and especially my inner world. Even after a short period of time (while still being basically strangers) they will start demanding and feeling entitled of knowing what I am feeling, thinking, doing.

Do you experience this???

Some adults really be acting like 5 yo children who are spoiled and want candy so badly.

They come to me and ask me "why didnt you tell me that? Why didnt you tell me how you felt? Why you didn't tell me you were going there?" Simple. I don't want to!!!!!

You are not trusted and really why would you want me to share my emotions with you when we are nothing more than aquantiances? I'll just stay away from these people or ignore them like the plague. Jeesus. Exhausting.

I find emotions are something really special that are meant to be shared only with special, real, and close ones. Why do people don't get that?

How have you been doing? How do you manage when everything is just going upside down?🥴

Am I the only to have experienced people being more aggressive verbally and physically (someone pushed me after going crazy over me asking a question and yes i was respectful🧐)

People are going mad or what?????

To get straight to the point- how do you go on living life as usual when everything around us is anything but real?

Everything around us is marketing, including people. We are not really ourselves, we want to impress others and exaggerate (or simply lie) and we just don't know who or what is real or fake.

I now spend most of my time alone, I can't recognise muself and I sometimes even miss the person I once was, oblivious from it all. I was at peace and I could be around people easily and even enjoy socialising, without needing to pretend or asking myself "is this person being authentic?"

Or even worse when it comes to professional environment, networking is the most forced thing one has to do to move up the ladder.

Yes, we will be always seeking to be in smaller communities, mostly out of fear and making sure we have some sort of security. But, what has the world come to? People say a lot of things and mean none of it all, there is no essence.

I'd appreciate reading about your personal experience with this and I'd be grateful for guidance

To get straight to the point- how do you go on living life as usual when everything around us is anything but real?

Everything around us is marketing, including people. We are not really ourselves, we want to impress others and exaggerate (or simply lie) and we just don't know who or what is real or fake.

I now spend most of my time alone, I can't recognise myself and I sometimes even miss the person I once was, oblivious of it all. I was at peace and I could be around people easily and even enjoy socialising, without needing to pretend or asking myself "is this person being authentic?"

Or even worse when it comes to professional environment, networking is the most forced thing one has to do to move up the ladder.

Yes, we will be always seeking to be in smaller communities, mostly out of fear and making sure we have some sort of security. But, what has the world come to? People say a lot of things and mean none of it all, there is no essence.

I'd appreciate reading about your personal experience with this and I'd be grateful for guidance

Or are we better off as friends? What's your experience so far with them?

I am hyperindependent, I know how to regulate my emotions and have been through things where I had no choice but to raise above struggles and did not let them destroy me. Yet, I do seek someone who has reached my same level of depth, but I want to work on myself to understand if I'm doing something wrong when getting into relationships (I will leave when I understand they do not have the things I provide) or I just want to understand if I simply have not find the one.

I end up leaving all connections that are good, but not good enough for long term commitment. Some lack emotional intelligence, others are just immature who have no objectives in life, no ambition, no idea on how to communicate like a grown up without getting into manipulative behavior.

Am I seeing relationships the wrong way? Am I not supposed to find someone who is there for me as I am for them?

Or is it just a matter of being comfortable with one another? What if I need the other person to be on the same level as me when it comes to emotional support (therefore highly emotional intelligence) and someone who knows how to communicate and who is not wishi washy and all over the place?

I refuse to have one of those relationships where we are just comfortable with one another and just repeating the same things all the time.

These are many questions, but please ANY advice in terms of changing the way I see relationships and constructive guidance would be greatly, greatly appreciated. Otherwise I will probably end up alone, which I really don't want, despite being comfortable with myself I still want to have someone to share my happiness with and be there for them to and viceversa.