u/Willing_Beyond8320

Following from the post in relation to the red flags on girlboss mean girls women groups, the focus should be an interesting perspective on toxic masculinity & typical *blokey bro hustle lads flex* traits that all too often dominate across western society particularly the USA (sometimes the UK Australia too). Unsure about other countries.

So I am just genuinely interested in understanding from the insights perspectives of women the typical social dynamics & traits of men in these groups. What are the red flags warning signs? The men most likely to engage in such traits & why do girlboss mean girls women cover for them- interesting to understand?

Rarely are heterosexual Asian men part of such circles.

I guess constant boasting about size, conquests, wealth, who has the bigger better toys, or just over the top stuff that gets a *free pass*? This *ain't* about friendly banter jokes pranks men share with a genuine laugh over a drink & some down time. That's fine.

Rather it's something much bigger.

Feel free to list well anything.

Be honest. No holds barred. Unflinching. Just for awareness & understanding.

Thank you

While there are plenty of amazing beautiful gorgeous & genuinely kind women from across native Asia, Europe, India, the Middle East & of course Latin America, there is *just* something about Hellenic women that I simply am unable to well resist.

Put simply I have had reasonable interactions with 🇬🇷 women in the past throughout Melbourne Australia. Most do seem friendly. But I guess for the real deal, a trip to Greece might be on the cards.

Then again Danish, Dutch, French, German & Italian women are fine. I have yet to have interactions with Slavic, Russian or Ukrainian women. Indian women. Decent. Native Chinese are fine.

Outside of Greeks, women from Mexico, Columbia & Arabic Middle East for some reason once I meet them seem to be genuinely kind & warm too.

As for Anglo women, my own personal experience is that if they're 6ft+ (183cm+) or are Irish tend to be okay. And paradoxically folks outside the city tend to a bit more solid in demeanour.

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Genuinely would like to know your favourite cuisines & meals.

In no particular order:

1. 🇭🇰 BBQ sweet roast pork char siu, roast duck, crispy pork, soy sauce chicken on rice. Have heard roast goose is absolutely delicious. Love to really try that one day. Plus yum cha dim sum. Cannot go past flaky egg tarts or wife cakes as a sweet treat.

2. 🇫🇷 Steak frites medium rare (a point) slathered with bearnaise sauce. Need I say more? Excellent patisserie.

3. 🇬🇷 Gyros & souvlaki. Yes lamb back in Melbourne Australia. But the real ones are chicken & pork sometimes beef. Had a hearty pasta bake (Pastisio). Love to try moussaka but am allergic to eggplant. Their sweets are delicious- baklava, custard slices, powdered almond shortbreads, orange semolina cake etc. And I must add Greek women are beautiful 😍

4. 🇮🇹 A plate of fetticine tossed in extra virgin olive oil with parsley chilli works very well.

5. 🇩🇪🇳🇱 Okay I will acknowledge both cuisines rarely make *headlines*. But hearty crumbled chicken schnitzel with authentic potato salad or fries served inside a cone slathered with mayonnaise? Authentic sausages on turn cardboard? Perfect.

6. 🇮🇪 Dublin is on my must visit list. Beef & Guinness pie. With a pint of Guinness on the side. Nothing more. Nothing less. Hearty stuff. Women genuinely kind. And the accent rocks!

7. 🇩🇰🇳🇴🇮🇸🇸🇪🇫🇮🇫🇴 The final Frontier. So to speak. Think rød pølse, wibdtues mutton, crispy fried pork with creamy parsley seice & potatoes, open faced sandwiches, mouth watering pastries. Fermented shark with brennvin.

Something more positive & uplifting.

Following from the girlboss mean girls women post, just wanted to share another disturbing phenomenon across western society particularly Anglo nations that affect heterosexual Asian men.

The misplaced labels of "entitled, predatory & creepy". Now whilst I will acknowledge there are *some* HAMs who are indeed bad apples it is absolutely *nothing* compared to the most extraordinary skeletons already uncovered. Particularly across the USA but also parts of the UK Australia & other nations too.

Think Epstein, Weinstein et al, powerful bankers along Wall Street/London) Melbourne/Sydney or entitled expats, so called *good guys* or the dreaded *he's a nice guy* labels. Sports stars (some). The blokey/bros/lads locker room talk. The size myths. The *exact same* women who gatekeep & run protection rackets.

And yet funnily enough once women who bravely confide privately to an innocent HAM, it's simply too little too late. You were complicit & deliberately exclude erased us from your own ptudessional, social & romantic networks. Because you were brainwashed & blindsided by what Hollywood, popular culture, friends, colleagues etc told you who was the *best partner* without even considering the red flags.

Labelling innocent HAM *creepy* whilst defending the most utter vile filth at the top or your social circle all too often breaks that trust.

So no HAM will politely decline the "offer" to "fix up" the broken mess, your own ptudessional, relationship, friendship implosions etc. We absolutely *hate* the *saviour nice guy complex* often shoved down in Hollywood & US TV Netflix sitcom *merde*. And that *never* ends well for women.

I remain unapologetic & unflinching in these sociological observations that are all too often prevalent in Anglo nations.

Finally, whilst no nation is perfect, my own personal experience tells me that native women from Europe, Asia, Arabic Middle East, Latin America & India are dignified. The exception are Anglo women over 6ft+. At least they genuinely see a human being.

Finally someone had to say it. Just for awareness & understanding. That's all.

To all women on here.

So I am just genuinely interested in understanding the typical social dynamics & traits of girlboss & mean girls women groups. What are the red flags warning signs? I guess heaps of exhausting gossip & gushing over intimacy details is just one example. There's plenty of others. And typical social activities they do.

I ask given such groups will *never* let alone *rarely* view heterosexual Asian men as either genuine friends or potential romantic interests. Their *type* if man is well .... anyone's guess. And any *diversity* in their social circles will have 0 heterosexual Asian men.

And are such groups most abundant in the USA? Or do they also crop up elsewhere.

Be honest. No holds barred. Unflinching. Just for awareness & understanding.

Thank you

Hello everyone! Chinese Australian here. 172cm.

I enjoy experiencing & learning new languages. Have studied 4 units of French. Conversational German. Eager to learn Dutch. Starting to learn basic conversational Greek in my spare time.

Favourite cuisines: Chinese, French, Greek, Italian & hearty pub fare. A sweet tooth. Love extra strong cappuccino without sugar.

Prefer quiet intimate ocassions. Or small social outings.

Height no issue but love tall women (175cm+). Age 28-56 years. *Single women only*. A woman (preferably native European but anyone is fine) with genuine warmth & relaxed. Love *heavy, monstrous natural* F-K cup breasts.

if this is something that interests you, feel free to send a message. No stress. Looking forward to hearing from you.