Missed my chance IRL to ask out this girl. Do I hit her up on social media?
So a couple weeks ago I met this girl through friend of mine. We were all hanging out over the course of a weekend and I'm pretty sure she was flirting with me. I'm usually terrible at reading that kind of stuff, but this seemed too obvious. She teased me multiple times with comments and jabs, asking me hypotheticals, what my dating life is like, where I'm going/what I'm doing to find other girls, venting her frustrations in not finding a guy, etc.
She talked like this exclusively to me. Like her eyes would light up and her laugh was a lot more enthusiastic if I cracked a joke compared to anyone else that was there. Granted, my friends are all married, so it's a little bit different of a vibe when I'm the only non-married person, but the other things I mentioned make me think she liked me.
So to cut to the chase: I wanted to ask her out, but there just wasn't an opportunity on the day I set my mind to it. It was either asking for her number in front of all of my friends, or waiting outside the bathroom door lol. Maybe there was something I could've crafted up, but I'm not rizzy like that I guess. After that night, she went back home which is out of state.
Her account however popped up on my social media this week. I know it's her because she brought up in a conversation what her nametag is online, and her account was recommended to me because we follow the same people.
Do I follow her account and send a DM? What does that opener even look like? Both of our accounts are anonymous, so I'm wondering how to navigate the situation while not being weird about it. If things did move in a good direction, it would end up as a LDR, which I have no problem with, but I feel like I should add that for context.
What do you guys think? Should I hit her up? How should I do it?