Truly I tell you once you begin to notice the sexual disparity you will see it everywhere.
They told you that women and men are equally attracted to each other. But for all of us at some point it began to become clear it was a lie. Maybe it was always there to some extent. I think the idea for instance that beauty is a feminine trait and that rape is something mostly done by men to women is something a lot of people are able to subconsciously pick up by puberty even if they were never told.
Getting exposed to sexual/romantic-dynamics whether by in person experience or exposure through media seems to be the main culprit for becoming susceptible to this ideology. For instance growing up I saw media that said that within heterosexuality women hold leverage over short term relationships (mainly hook ups) while men hold leverage for long term relationships. However, this became undeniably false when I began to listen to men's lived experiences and they came to a consensus that they can not find long term partners while women came to the consensus that men need to stop falling in love with them. For these women have men falling in love with them for simply just interacting with them to the point that it is a near universal experience for women with male friends to have at least one confess. At which point it becomes clear that women hold leverage over all forms of sex and relationship. And upon examination of society you begin to really notice.
- You notice how sex work is mainly women selling to men
- How the men who sell sex are mostly selling to men
- How all dating apps have far more men than women
- How female separatists movements are gaining popularity
- How men are launching revenge-against society attacks because of lack of marriage prospects
- How most media has only sexualized females
- How sexualized males are labeled “male gaze”
- How women openly call themselves “the prize”
- How in many animals the male needs to impress the female
- How romance is something men do to women, such as it being the male duty to do valentines day and give her flowers.
- How women openly talk about not finding men attractive
- How women only have sex with men because they like the feeling of being desirable more than they desire the male
- The above also applies to women dressing up as they want to be the beautiful ones since they like being beautiful more than they like “male beauty”
- How dowerys and bride prices exist where some cultures you need to pay if you ever want to get married. No one would ever pay for a groom
- How even manosphere movements still want wife, but feminists movements advocate separatism
- How women put on clothes because people want to see them naked, but men up on clothes because no one wants to see a naked man
- How women are biologically meant to be very selective
- How virgin men are considered bad but virgin women are considered pure of the male touch
- How lingerie only exists for women because it would look weird for a man to try and be erotic
- How gen z women are twice as likely to be homosexeual and thrice as likely to be bisexual
- How both men and women form stronger bonds with women because they both prefer women
- How both men and women says and studies show prefer the female body over the male body
- How business like clubs and bars try to attract women because women attract men who will peacock with their money
- How a man surrounded by women is in heaven and a women surrounded by men is in hell
- How women see all men as sexual predators
- How we have things like female only bathrooms, dorms, trains, and ubers because men do not know how to leave women alone (women have no problem leaving men alone btw)
- How women would wear more revealing clothing if not for men
- How most men only make money, work out , and work on their appearance is so they can impress women
- How impressing men is considered a negative of being a beautiful woman
- How there is no such thing as an ugly women since all women have innate desirability
- How it is completely normal for girls to experiment with girls and kiss girls
- How women considered marrying men to be easy but the worse option but women are better but harder to do
- How even women who do like attractive men care more about the fact that he is attractive and thus at the top of the hierarchy rather than because she genuinely likes attractive men (this is why having a gf is one of the most attractive traits a man can have, it is not that she likes the man she likes being the more desired one)
- How women hate sex so much that every religion told them to just shut the fuck up and do it and even the victorians told their women to “just lie back and think of England”
- How men can not even express feelings to women without it benign "emotional labor” because women do not actually like bonding with men
- How every female issue from forced marriage, child marriage, rape, objectification, dress codes such as in school and the hijab, stalking, workplace harassment, human trafficing, society wanting women to be wifes not career women, AI deepfake porn, and more are all because of men being infatuated with women. If men did not want sex and or wives these would not be issues. And it is why men do not face theses issues because no one wants to marry a 9 year old boy since he is a boy, but they do the 9 year old girl because she is a girl.
- How when you give women a choice to marry men or not they chose not, and birth rates plummet.
- How it is likely the entire reason most societies are patriarchal is because 1) the ones which gave women the power to say no went extinct and 2) inheritance needs to be passed down to the sons since the sons need money and titles to marry while women will marry no matter what. And so things go from father to son.
And just so much more
You will never see a male-female interaction the same again. Every time you see a heterosexal relationship you will know that the woman holds the power by the principle of least interest. When you understand how women see men you will never want to be in their field of view due to the knowledge that she sees you as a pervert. You will see it every time your male peers complain about lack of female attention while your female peers complain about how many men hit on, ask out, and fall in love with her. Truly you will see that WANIM is not just about noticing, but rather is an entire worldview and once you accept the truth you will realize you do not live in the world you thought you did