This hair looks so good straightened! it took heat really well, I didn’t go above 35 on my flat iron. I’m surprised how much I enjoy it straight since I usually like curly/wavy texture. I’m so happy with the quality of this hair! 🥰
Luvme All-Day Comfort™ Wig 180% Density Loose Body Wave Glueless 7x6 Closure HD Lace Human Hair Wig with Bangs Pre-Cut Lace
So in my last therapy session my therapist called me abusive to my partner. So let me set the scene: I was telling my therapist about my small irritations and how quickly I can get frustrated and angry at my partner for small things and then feel guilty about it so I have to apologize and try my best to not do it again but then something else will happen and I can’t control my emotions. Cycle starts again. I explained to her a silly argument we had about going to the movies late and how I decided to hold on to a grudge way too long with my partner. She then proceeded to say that’s abuse.
Controlling my emotions whether I’m sad, happy, angry, or even hungry is hard for me. I always feel an emotion so intensely and so quickly. If something makes me sad I will immediately get sad and then after awhile that “thing” I was sooooo sad about doesn’t evoke the same level of emotions. It’s like when I ponder it some more I realize that it mattered to me differently than it actually did before. It’s really frustrating to be this way and I was trying to explain to my therapist about it and she called me abusive. She said that I’m abusing my partner (FP). When she first told me this I laughed out of shock because I couldn’t comprehend what she meant. from my eyes it felt like my anger and upsetness were justified because they are real grievances (just happen way too often and I want it controlled) but it’s not like I hit him or call him names, I just say I’m mad or upset at him for small things way too much. -But once she explained his point of view, I felt so awful. It’s not about him learning to not make me upset, he shouldn’t walk on eggshells because I can’t control my emotions. I truly hate my diagnosis. It’s not like I am doing this on purpose. I hate being called abusive but at the same time truly feeling like the victim.
I talked to my boyfriend about this and bless his soul, he said that he doesn’t feel abused and loves me. He just says “you are a little too much and need to not let so much affect you” but other than that he says he happy. I feel like he is but I know that he will eventually get tired of it if I don’t learn to swallow my feelings and ponder them a lot harder before I react. I’m actively trying but fuck. I can’t believe I’m actually abusive 😭💔
I’ve gotten this glue-less wig roughly two weeks ago. As a beginner in glue-less/lace front wigs, I will say I don’t do much if anything at all to my wigs when I wear them. For this wig the only thing I’ve done so far is washed the hair (which turned out great) and curled the hair (which dropped after a few hours but I did not add any product to it). Today I wanted to wear the wig as is and see how much the curls have disappeared, as you can see the hair is still very much wavy with the ends still curled! The waves never go away. I would also like to say the cutting of the bangs has me very much pleased. It shapes my face very well. I like the emo bang style which allowed me to style myself more alt/goth, which I personally love. The bangs can also be styled in a different manner which gives off a more whimsy vibe. I tried both ways of styling the bangs and it’s been pretty fun. Besides that I don’t use glue or added anything to the lace. I love that I didn’t have to do much as a beginner. I know I can “melt” the lace but I found it to be counterintuitive since you can’t really see the front of the lace anyway. Lastly the wig cap is adjustable and I love that because it fits snug on my head however, because of the lack of combs on the top of the wig cap I feel like I may need to invest in wig tape for the sides just to feel like it won’t ever move. Luckily the hair has stayed in place and I doubt it will ever fall off but as someone that likes combs on my wigs it’s something I will consider. Overall I like this hair. Despite the small changes I’m very happy and can’t wait to play with it some more. I’m hoping to style a ponytail and half up-half down hairstyle next! (Btw this is a luvme wig)
Honorable mentions:
Pros:
- thickness
- extra wig band
- Realistic Lace
- lives up to human hair expectations
Cons:
- lack of combs
- can’t choose density levels