u/Worldly-Seesaw-6959

I'm 19 F and in my last year of school. I live in germany where it's super common to first off - have jobs and earn money from as early as 15 or something and second - to have a drivers license from 17 and a car, whether moms or dads or their own car.

I don't come from germany, i moved here about 4 years ago and doing well in school blabla...
The point is back in 10th grade this girl moved into my city and started going to the same school i was. She was also a foreigner.
Now we're in the same class and i can't stop feeling like she's got her life figured out even if she hasn't been here as long as i have. Just to list off some stuff: didn't get pushed one year back when she came here but i did, she got a job like one whole year before i started feeling like i was a loser and also got one(btw also as a waitress just like her because i thought if she can do it so can i and i hated it lol), then she started working a lot of hours next to school and i was always wondering how she can manage not having any free time at all because i was done after school i couldn't never imagine working as much as her.

Then back to the drivers license - she was the one to wanna do it first, so she did. At the time i didn't have a lot of money saved up at all and i knew she did because of all the work she was doing. Later she got her drivers license and two weeks later bought a car in full cash. This is when i started feeling like im super behind on everything. I started comparing everything and feeeling less than and stuff only because she had a car and i had to ride the bus still. I'm currently also in the process of getting my license and buying a car, but i also feel like i'm rushing myself only because i want to sort of catch up to her level? Somehow i see myself in her due to all the stuff we have in common and feel like she's a version of me that i could've also had but was too slow to achieve?

I know it's toxic and i'm working on understanding that each person is different and that i don't have it that bad either but i can't help it can someone give me advice 😓😭

Sorry for the long story

Ich überlege gerade, ab dem Wintersemester 2027/28 an der Uni Osnabrück Lehramt an Gymnasien mit Englisch und Informatik zu studieren. Ist das schwer? Gibt es vllt jemanden der diese Fachkombi auch hat? Ist Uni so wie Schule, also 6-8 Std jeden Tag? Oder wie sieht eine normale Woche so ungefähr aus von der Freizeit her und Unterrichtszeiten? Kann man sein eigenes Stundenplan machen oder ist das fest geplant? Ich habe ehrlich gesagt viel zu viele dumme fragen aber naja...