What to do with kids during ward council
My husband has meetings 2 hours before our sacrament meeting starts. Occasionally I go with him and just drop my kids off at the nursery and primary that happens during his meeting then we find something else to do for the next hour before our meeting starts. We arrive in time to get to the start of the other ward's second hour and don't pull them out early. I was berated by the primary president for putting my kid in primary last time. I cannot find anything in the handbook that says it's not okay. It's also not an option for my husband to drive there and drive back to pick us up after meetings and we live too far away for it to be worth it for me to drive there to drop him off, then back home and back to church again once our meeting is starting.
Am I in the wrong here? A friend advised me to talk to their bishop about what happened because I was in tears after the encounter. They said if it happened to me it has probably happened to someone else and needs to be addressed. I was just going to move on and never move into that ward boundary. Then the primary president asked the stake primary president to talk to me about it as well because she was that upset I had put my kid in the primary. And when I say occasionally, I mean I have only done it one time this year but did it a handful of time last year in a different ward and they were always excited to have visitors.
Tldr: got chastised for putting my kids in a primary class in a ward that isn't ours because we were at the church during that time. Wondering if I'm in the wrong for thinking that was okay and if there is a section in the handbook that talks about that policy