Wir wollen unseren Bad ein kleines Upgrade verpassen.
Am besten keine kleine aber effektive Änderungen, wir wollen nicht das ganze Bad renovieren.
Vielleicht 400-800€.
Streichen geht auch.
Dankeschöööön
Me (M28) and my GF (26) are together since many years now 7+.
Iam here first sexual partner and she is my second.
Sex is often very good and I think we have a healthy and very honest relationship.
Also our sex life is still improving to some degree and I would still say it got better and still will get better if we continue like this.
We can talk about anything and raise our points if there is something.
But we sometimes keep spiraling around the same issue which is my way higher libido and urge for exploration.
She is fine with the way we have sex and usually doesn’t have anything she want to add/remove/improve.
In comparison to me, iam often trying to seek novelty in sex and like to try new things and just explore.
To me it feels sometimes that she doesn’t have that explorer drive at all. This makes me uncomfortable sometimes since I feel a bit restricted in my sexual exploration.
It’s not that she usually is super against new things. She sometimes then does tries new things „for me“.
But it’s kind of annoying to always be the one asking.
I would enjoy it way more if this would be more balanced.
Poly or swinging is also not really an option.
She totally doesn’t want it and i would somehow at least try something in that direction. But not sure if even I could handle that without being jealous.
I really love her and want to have kids with her one day. But idk, also I want to explore more.
Anyone had this situation or has any tips?
Is that „normal“?
I also watched lots of porn while becoming adult so maybe my expectations are also a bit of.