(30m) Am I wrong for telling my ex (33F) if she genuinely does not let me see our toddler that I’m not paying CS?
At the end of a relationship, not legally married, splitting homes soon… multiple times now she has said she is not going to let me see my daughter, so I asked her, in this scenario you’re talking about, do you still expect me to pay you CS , she said yes. To which I said “why? if you insist on doing it all without me and want to block me out then you shouldn’t need money from me either. I’m not paying you anything if I can’t see her. “
I feel conflicted about it but I am seriously considering taking this stand. Two wrongs don’t make a right and just because she is petty doesn’t mean I should be. Yet I also don’t see it as petty it’s logical to me, what’s the purpose of helping with money if you won’t let me have any time with her at all..
Has anyone lived a similar scenario, give advice on it, am I wrong for thinking this way?