I just moved to Clinton a few weeks ago, and I'm wondering what's the best way to meet people in their 20s in this area. What do you all do for fun here, and where do you like to hang out?
My boyfriend (25 M) and I (25 F) have been together almost four years and living together for almost two. When I moved in with my boyfriend, he told me we’d get married next year in the winter which didn’t end up happening. My sister (23 F) got engaged recently. She got engaged while on vacation with her boyfriend (now fiancé (25 M)) a few days after my birthday. I knew it’d happen, and I thought I’d be happy because I like her fiancé but when I found out I broke down in tears. When I was younger I’d always thought I’d be married and possibly have a family by now. My boyfriend kept talking about getting married and we even went ring shopping about half a year ago. We had a jeweler picked out and I had a ring I liked but we moved and I don’t think he got it or remembers what it looks like. Ever since then I’ve been a little unhappy, occasionally I’m fine but when ever something about the wedding comes up that feeling comes back. I’ve also quit my job twice to move for him and my last job was something that didn’t use my degree. I’ve made a lot of sacrifices and now I’m feeling uncertain if he’s going to commit fully to me or if he’s too comfortable to do anything. I don’t want to be feeling this way cause I really love him and he loves me but I’m worried he might beat around the bush. How did you deal with these feelings when your younger sister got engaged? What’s the best way to deal with this situation? Do I just cope with these feelings?