u/Zealousideal-Drop442

im 23 years old and live in Canada and these cats are my first ever pets ive ever had this is also my first time posting on here but recently i took my 8 year old male neutered Cat to the vet a week ago for some blood in his poop they took xrays checked his breathing and the sorts but never took blood work they prescribed him with antibiotics and hes on his last antibiotic tmrw and has been taken fortiflora for his gut health they also prescribed hes previously has been to the vet when he was around 4-5 years old because hes had crystals and was switch to Urinary So food aswell and had been again also because he ate a elastic band about 6 momths ago and it has passed with barrium however because of this ive been taken a closer eye on his sister who is 7 year old and spayed she was drinking a excess amount of water and sleeping lots i also noticed her poops are soft little pebbles not hard but not enough poop for a whole bowel movement and having a heavy breathing even when resting but not mouth breathing and very picky with the Urinary So food that the vet said is safe for her to eat aswell so i took her in to the vet today and they took bloodwork for her pancreas to rule out diabetes aswell as for her kidneys to rule out any kidney disease and also took xrays for her chest to make sure she didnt have a respiratory infection and to make sure she wasnt constipated she passed everything with flying colours and suggested i feed her the fortiflora aswell since her brother has been taking it however they did tell me to watch out for the heavy breathing dont smoke inside the house and possibly get a humidifier to clear the air for her however shes still experiencing heavy breathing even though her chest sounds clear and the xray shows no fluid or anything in her chest shes just breathing heavy but no mouth breathing mentally ive been exhausted with everything going on with my Male cat i brought in literally a week ago and the blood he was experiencing and the antibiotics as i said now im hyper focused on my female cat with her breathing eating enough food and watching her poop habits idk if im doing anything wrong im just worried im missing something in her behaviour or stress that might cause her to be breathing heavy because i did move furniture around last saturday or not wanting to eat food i thought she liked for the longest time i also have been dealing with all this it feels like alone i still live with my parents however theyve been on vacation this whole time ive taken both my cats to the vet and wont be back until after the long weekend i havent been able to sleep because ive been watching both of them like hawks woth his bloody poop and antibiotics and her eating and watching her breathing and making sure shes still alive ive gone through lots of mental breakdowns and anxiety because of all this really im just hoping for some support in everything ive done and believing im doing everything i can because im so alone in it all i catch myself staring at the both of them for hours sometimes i also work all day and am terrified im gonna come home and there not gonna be alive i dont really know if im just overwhelmed and overthinking or being a bad pet parent please give me some advice id really appreciate it thanks

im 23 years old and live in Canada and these cats are my first ever pets ive ever had this is also my first time posting on here but recently i took my 8 year old male neutered Cat to the vet a week ago for some blood in his poop they took xrays checked his breathing and the sorts but never took blood work they prescribed him with antibiotics and hes on his last antibiotic tmrw and has been taken fortiflora for his gut health they also prescribed hes previously has been to the vet when he was around 4-5 years old because hes had crystals and was switch to Urinary So food aswell and had been again also because he ate a elastic band about 6 momths ago and it has passed with barrium however because of this ive been taken a closer eye on his sister who is 7 year old and spayed she was drinking a excess amount of water and sleeping lots i also noticed her poops are soft little pebbles not hard but not enough poop for a whole bowel movement and having a heavy breathing even when resting but not mouth breathing and very picky with the Urinary So food that the vet said is safe for her to eat aswell so i took her in to the vet today and they took bloodwork for her pancreas to rule out diabetes aswell as for her kidneys to rule out any kidney disease and also took xrays for her chest to make sure she didnt have a respiratory infection and to make sure she wasnt constipated she passed everything with flying colours and suggested i feed her the fortiflora aswell since her brother has been taking it however they did tell me to watch out for the heavy breathing dont smoke inside the house and possibly get a humidifier to clear the air for her however shes still experiencing heavy breathing even though her chest sounds clear and the xray shows no fluid or anything in her chest shes just breathing heavy but no mouth breathing mentally ive been exhausted with everything going on with my Male cat i brought in literally a week ago and the blood he was experiencing and the antibiotics as i said now im hyper focused on my female cat with her breathing eating enough food and watching her poop habits idk if im doing anything wrong im just worried im missing something in her behaviour or stress that might cause her to be breathing heavy because i did move furniture around last saturday or not wanting to eat food i thought she liked for the longest time i also have been dealing with all this it feels like alone i still live with my parents however theyve been on vacation this whole time ive taken both my cats to the vet and wont be back until after the long weekend i havent been able to sleep because ive been watching both of them like hawks woth his bloody poop and antibiotics and her eating and watching her breathing and making sure shes still alive ive gone through lots of mental breakdowns and anxiety because of all this really im just hoping for some support in everything ive done and believing im doing everything i can because im so alone in it all i catch myself staring at the both of them for hours sometimes i also work all day and am terrified im gonna come home and there not gonna be alive i dont really know if im just overwhelmed and overthinking or being a bad pet parent please give me some advice id really appreciate it thanks