ABYG if I blocked my friend on all my socmeds and cut her off after she cancelled our trip literally last minute?
So this happened last year. I (M27) have this friend (F26) for around 4 years already. Super close kami and same field of work pa. Ako kasi may car then siya wala, so kapag sasabay siya sakin okay lang naman. Like hatid sundo levels pa minsan. Ang issue lang talaga is super late niya lagi. Like usapan 9am ko siya susunduin pero lalabas siya almost 10am na. Pero I let it slide kasi nasanay na rin ako eventually.
One time, me and my friends planned a trip to Ilocos Norte. Problem is yung car ko manual and ako lang marunong mag drive ng manual, so wala akong kapalitan sa long drive. And Ilocos is like around 10 hours away.
Then itong si friend mismo nag offer na gamitin na lang daw car ng bf niya since automatic yun and tatlo kami marunong mag drive ng automatic. So syempre go kami.
Everything was already planned talaga. Nakapag file na kami ng leave sa work like a month before. May booked hotel na, planned itinerary, bought outfits, complete na talaga.
Then the night before the trip, around 8pm, okay pa lahat. Nag uusap pa kami about meeting place, call time, itinerary, etc.
Then around 11pm, bigla siya nag chat na ayaw na raw niya tumuloy.
No explanation. Basta ayaw na lang daw.
So ako syempre confused kasi literal ready na lahat. I kept asking her ano nangyari but ayaw niya sabihin. Since car ng bf niya yung gagamitin, I messaged the bf to ask what happened.
Apparently, nag away daw sila because hindi nakapag reply agad si guy. For context, si girl belongs to a certain religion and yung bf niya was trying to convert for her. That night nasa church si guy so hindi agad nakapag reply.
Nagalit si girl kasi hindi siya nareplyan agad and ayaw na niya makipag ayos after.
Then si girl nagalit sakin kasi bakit ko raw minessage bf niya eh issue raw nilang dalawa yun. But honestly I was just trying to save the trip kasi lahat kami affected. Yung iba naming kasama BPO agents pa and dala na nila maleta habang naka duty para derecho byahe pagka out.
But si ate girl wala na raw talaga gana gumala and hindi niya raw kaya makipag ayos just for the trip.
Dito na ako nainis talaga. Nirealtalk ko siya na ang inconsiderate nung ginawa niya kasi hindi biro yung effort and gastos for the trip. Like leaves were filed, hotels booked, outfits bought, plans finalized. Sabi ko sana nagsabi siya mas maaga para nakapaghanap kami ibang sasakyan instead of cancelling literal hours before departure.
After nun, blinock ko siya sa lahat ng socmed ko and basically cut her off.
We still pushed through with a trip though. Nag Baler Aurora na lang kami para hindi sayang yung leaves and ootds.
Some of our common friends told me ang harsh ko raw for blocking her over “one incident” pero for me kasi parang last straw na siya ng pagiging inconsiderate niya over the years.
ABYG?