I am trying to see if the female libido is generally just as high as men. I feel like on reddit you do see a lot of high libido women. Even in r/DeadBedrooms a lot of the high libido partners are women. But then there's the stereotype that men want sex more. So what has you experience been as men? Do your partners have similar libidos to you?
Just curious if men get crushes on older women. For example, older work colleagues, university teachers etc. Im talking about women 40+. I know women sometimes do so, I was wondering if it's also true for the opposite sex, or if men are just into younger primarily. Comment your opinions of what you think.
Despite men's whining online there isnt much evidence men have less sex/relationships than women.
Men have more sexual partners
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n-keystat.htm
This source points out that men and women are single at similar rates; however, women tend to be single later in life, whereas men tend to be single earlier in life.
https://www.jstor.org/stable/resrep63349.7?seq=2
Both men and women have experienced sex at similar rates "Regarding opposite-sex sexual behavior, 94.2% of women and 92% of men aged 18–44 had ever had vaginal intercourse."
https://blogs.cdc.gov/nchs/2016/01/12/3036/
So is the rhetoric that men have it harder in dating just a result of mass male hysteria?
Women ignore men they're not interested in. They're polite, they dont lead on a man theyre not attracted to. They dont bully men online who they aren't attracted to.
Women who men aren't attracted to dont get any peace. Men find it a personal offence when a women isnt attractive. They especially like to ridicule fat women, old women, single mothers, or any women who has an alternative style aka green hair and piercings that doesn't conform to male beauty standards.
The main problem is these women dont want mens insults or men using them just for sex while promising more. They dont want the online insults of being called post wall, hamplanet, fridges, whale, crazy cat lady, leftover women etc.
Men get called short kings and they can be as old and wrinkly as they like. They dont even get picked on for being fat, in fact guys are the ones who will pick on other guys for being fat. Ironic. OH AND SINGLE DADS GET PRAISED.
I think guys should stop whining online about their dating woes when most men are NASTY to women.
You could be the funny guy who makes women laugh, the muscular guy who built his body in the gym, the smart guy with a great degree, the guy who's financially skilled, the fun guy who has a range of hobbies, the tattooed guy etc etc etc. Woman each have individual tastes.
But for women? NOPE
Young, pretty, thin. Nothing else matters to men. They dont care who a women is. Her achievement or passions. Pretty much all men would choose an immature bitchy 18yr old over a smart and kind women over 30.
So when i hear men complaining I just think how good they really have it. Because its really not hard to be attractive to women. There will never be a higher standard than that of only being attractive to the opposite sex for a handful of years.