u/ZeeTheGreat_O318

I’ve always been curious what is Grindr like in the city lol. Any experience you can share?

I’m 19m and I need a job that doesn’t have to pay that much. What’s the best way to find one? Or what kind of jobs are available for students like me?

I’m 19m and I need a job that doesn’t have to pay that much. What’s the best way to find one? Or what kind of jobs are available for students like me?

I’m a 19m, I’m kinda lonely and it’s so hard finding an actual boyfriend in the Philippines. As a chubby person, sometimes people won’t even see me as a love interest, just wants to be friends. I just want someone genuine and who I can talk to everyday or when I feel like talking to someone. If someone is interested please give me a dm to see if we can click!

I remember my first and only time I ever experienced doing the deed was last year when I just turned 18. I used grinder for the first time and was surprised since I didn’t expect to see many profiles in my province. Then somebody tapped me for the first time and messaged me if I wanted to do the deed. At first I was nervous and scared since I was still a virgin, plus this man was a teacher and was in his 30’s. But suddenly curiosity hit me and I felt a bit horny that time so I decided to do it with him.

Fast forward, after we met we did the deed immediately and I was being the bot. Tbh It really hurt, to the point I still felt it on the way home. I was not hard most of the time, most was when we were just making out but not when he was inserting it.

Anyways after that I never was in mood to that again. Like am I not actually interested in men? Or is there something wrong with me? I thought there was supposed to be a G spot lol

Anyways that’s my story and what do you think I should do to fix this kind of problem?

I just recently found out I’m actually bi and have been wanting to experience having a boyfriend. Every night I would think what would it feel like, but finding one is legit kinda hard and a risk, mostly when you want it to be organic and not from those dating apps.

And I feel like I would be the bot of the relationship lol.

Is there no one here in makati who I can meet!? 😩

I’ve had multiple online friends during the pandemic but I don’t really talk to them anymore. But when I tried making friends again online, it’s now kinda hard to make some. Most of them just stopped talking to me the following day or act weird and makes me send personal stuff. Lowkey I just wanna find friends who I can chat with when I have no one to talk to.