u/Zimboman66

Lots of people in dating have this entitlement mentality where they expect their talking stage not to talk to other people but them only , the truth is people don't owe you exclusivity as long as they are not official and as long as you haven't had any discussion to do so, so you should just accept that this person is talking to other people and be cool with that. And a lot of people start asking questions that are non of their business like "why aren't you texting me" "whose that guy you were talking to etc" they don't owe you a conversation or a reply. If you can't accept this reality you're not ready for dating and fix your insecurities too cause this behavior is cause by insecurities and entitlement. This person has no business telling you about intimate details of their life or what their doing, the only thing you probably need to know is mental health and sexual reproductive health when you first meet someone.

And stop trying to make things work if they're not working, don't be too quick to fall in love, always remember that this is a journey and you'll bump through a few potholes before you get to the destination.

Deal with your jealousy issues.

Deal with your insecurities

Deal with you obsessiveness

Deal with your possessiveness

Deal with your low self esteem.

Most guys who always talk about virginity, don't have much dating experience, this just my observation , cause if they did they would understand that women are more than just a piece of pussy. Most of the relationship trauma doesn't actually come from sex unless she was graped, but it's from lying, manipulate deception, most women are selective about who they decide to sleep with, and they enjoy sex too.

If you want to be in a monogamous relationship, you have to come to terms with the fact that this person might cheat on you, you have to come to terms with it early, even if there is no proof that they cheated , you can't prove whether or not they cheated on you anyways.

A lot of people want a person who is loyal but this is an unrealistic fallacy, because people are loyal to themselves first before another person. Some people cheat,others don't and others cheat on one person and don't cheat with another person.

Personally I'm against cheating

You can't control cheating but you can control how you respond to it. And if happens you can kindly move on to the next.

Women don't look for guys to use, but If they see an opportunity to use you the chances are high, it's just human nature.

Guys if you don't want to be asked for money avoid broke women, or women with a broke mentality. A lot of you worked for this money, you got shouted at by your boss for this money man, these types of girls don't like you. Date women who don't need your money, their easier to date.

Lastly only date girls who show the same interest that you show them.

I think dating has become disingenuous because of unrealistic and sometimes outdated standards, that are detrimental to our dating lives as a whole.

I think people should just meet for the first time and discuss what they want, whether the person wants sex or something serious, this will save a lot of time, because people can open ip space to look at people that they want.

The reason why everything is so bad is because of lies, manipulation and certain stigmas, if you are poly you should be open with that, but now you have to cheat because you're not being real, or you're leading someone on because you wanted something casual.

You want money but you don't want to look like you sell.

We can't continue to be living like this.

Guys if you want to approach a woman and she says no to you

No means No!!!

However:

You have to be okay with the no because she is a human being who has the ability to choose what she wants for herself.

It doesn't matter if

1. If she's rude to you

2. If she ignores you

3. She gives you a fake number

4. Laughs at you.

5. Disses you.

6. Belittles you.

7. Gives a funny excuse

You need to be unreactive and remain calm.

This is just the reality of approaching women and it has nothing to do with you in most cases if you're polite.

The most important thing is going after what you want and trying again until you succeed this goes with everything else in life.

And work on your social skills you're gonna need them.

Women consider a lot of factors when dating guys.

The best time to date 20+ women is if you're also the same age group, so if you're young grow up and get in the game, cause you ain't getting any younger, connecting with women genuinely and honestly is part of the human experience don't miss out on it.

This thing that women expire with age isn't just for women, guys get old too, so don't be delusional bro.

And the older you get the harder and harder it becomes to get what you want out of dating if you don't take care of yourself.

So if you're young take advantage of your youth, you have a small window.

Go out and meet people.

We all anonymous here we don't judge😂

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