What are your thoughts about not telling your current partner about your past?

Hi! I recently read a post on threads about not telling your current partner every detail about your ex or your past in general. I can say I really dont have a lot of experiences when it comes to RS, but with my recent ex I was an open book to him. Though I never told him the exact details I was honest to him, not until he invaded my privacy and pulled out every detail on me. He also used my past to antagonized me and hurt me. I have my own share of past that I’m not proud of and already learned my lesson. Can you share your thoughts mga Ate? I would like to read.

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u/_stargirl224 — 2 days ago

Leap of faith, I did HIV Testing today. Anyone who also did it?

For context, I am F25 and I also posted here before regarding with my shenanigans to my ex. After we broke up, people went up to me and told me about my Ex’s dirty laundry before us and when we were still together. What sickens me was— he has been using his body for “money” not just to OLDER WOMEN but to OLD GAYS as well. I felt so disgusted that I will tell my therapist about this on our next session. Nag-overthink ako ilang araw and earlier I finally did it despite being so scared. THANK YOU LORD cause I got Negative result. Will be back again after 3 months for confirmatory test.

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u/_stargirl224 — 8 days ago
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longtime no see, my tilapia babies

Haven’t visited them for a long time cause of the typhoon that has been happening in our Province. Also I got so busy with my summer class, I felt bad when I saw them that they’re skinny (the babies) 😔🥹. I will try my best to visit them consistently from now on. I bought cat food and they love it, so I think eto na yung dadalhin ko everytime I visit them. I also brought clean water for them to drink and I’m planning to buy Mama Cat her own pet bowl.

u/_stargirl224 — 23 days ago

What shoud I do? Should I expose him or let karma do its thing?

Hello, F25 here. We have broken up already, we have been together for a year. Not even a month and nalaman ko na sila na daw ng girl na involved sa rs namin. The catch is, we’re still talking like communicating once in a while. I know its my fault too na nagrereply ako but I’m still hurting. Pero naiinis rin ako na he kept playing mind games with me, he would say things and later on magsasabi na he was just bluffing lang daw and he “love” his gf. For all I know pera lang naman ng babae yung habol niya, ayaw pa umamin. I have here proofs of our conversation and all. One more thing, he still replies to random girls on threads.

Can you help me and give me an honest advice on what should I do?

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u/_stargirl224 — 25 days ago

Sex Question: Thoughts about doing Anal?

Hello, 25F here so me and my ex recently communicated again and we talked about seeing each other once he came home from MNL. We were so compatible kasi in terms of sex, so it was kinda hard for us talaga to stop seeing each other. We talked abt doing the anal since hindi namin nagawa yung while we were still together. Any tips from someone who has experienced it? Also what are your preparations?

We will use protection naman po once we do the deed.

I just want to prepare myself ahead.

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u/_stargirl224 — 27 days ago
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Cat Cafe in our town

Visited the first ever Cat Cafe in our town. I went with my cousin, it was a fun experience. Parang ayaw ko na umalis huhuhu. There’s a caretaker inside, and salitan po yung pagpapalabas sa cats para hindi sila crowded sa open space. Before entering you also need to sanitize your hands and meron silang slippers na for inside lang to avoid contamination. You can also feed them with treats. Airconditioned yung space.

u/_stargirl224 — 1 month ago
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Stray Cat in our Campus

One of my fave stray cat here on Campus. Actually madami yung stray cats here sa Campus and I’m so happy to see na they’re all well fed. But this baby was waiting for me while I finish my meal yesterday.

u/_stargirl224 — 1 month ago
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thor, pogiii mo naman

this is my cousin’s cat :D umakyat sa table at hinihintay ako makatapos kumain so i can feed him.

havent visited my tilipia babies cause of heavy rains these past few days, i hope they’re safe & dry.

u/_stargirl224 — 2 months ago
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Tilapia Babies

Hello! I visited them again today and bought them pet bowls na & collars. Unfortunately uncomfy yung isang baby sa collar, so nilagay ko muna kay Mama Cat. And yes, Mama Cat showed up and halata naman siguro na ito rin yung Papa Cat nila? 😩😭. I’m planning to let them try yung cat food pero dahil bumabagyo dito sa amin rice & chicken na lang muna yung nadala ko.

PS. Makakapasok rin po sila sa bahay ng ex ko for shelter incase na umuulan.

u/_stargirl224 — 2 months ago
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visited my kids today

went to my ex’s house today to feed the kids. they’re not home so im checking on them once in a while. cleaned their bowls before ko nilagay yung food :))

PS. with consent from my ex that i can go their house and feed the babies, since they’ll be gone for a month.

u/_stargirl224 — 2 months ago
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shy and aloof babyyy

cant wait to adopt this baby

PS. hindi ko pa siya ma-adopt as of the moment kasi busy pa ako at hindi ko pa siya mabigyan ng time na makapag-focus sa kanya.

u/_stargirl224 — 2 months ago

Starting Pasabuy Business

Hello po! I’m planning to start a pasabuy business for HKG. I want to know po how do you usually put up your pricing? How do you add additonal fees? I just want to know the basics po when it comes to fees and all. I really want to do this po to earn extra for myself. We frequently visit HKG po kasi and I think this will help me a lot. Thank you po!

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u/_stargirl224 — 2 months ago
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Cat Adoption

Hello! I’m planning to adopt one of the babies ng cat ng bf ko, since they will be leaving for MNL. Can you share some tips or anything that I should learn? This will be a first for me and somehow I find it overwhelming. I have experienced taking care of puppies but not cats. So please help me

u/_stargirl224 — 2 months ago