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Would you give an ugly guy a chance? Why or why not?

Nasa kanya na lahat, personality, values, career, how he treats you, etc. but you feel absolutely no physical attraction to him. Would you still give him a chance? Why or why not?

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u/Efficient-Picture805 — 11 days ago

Paano mo masasabing pogi talaga ang lalaki?

Hi to all gurlies out there, how can you say na pogi talaga yung guy? Like ano basis ninyo, im talking about the physical appearance.

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u/ParticularPrimary364 — 11 days ago

Ano hindi nyo kaya i-tolerate sa relationship?

Hindi ko talaga kaya matanggap yung lalaking mahilig mag add/follow ng random girls sa socmed. Nakakahiya sya for me. My ex and I broke up with that specific reason. I tried to understand him at first pero defensive sya palagi. He can't resist doing that. I set him free 🙂‍↕️

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u/Inevitable_Ask_9862 — 11 days ago

What struggle will you choose?

Girls kung papipiliin kayo between a guy who is abusive, may mga bisyo like inom/yosi, and a guy who is not abusive, walang bisyo perooo provider siya financially but purely pera lang ambag niya and ginagawa ka na niyang yaya tapos siya buhay prinsipe lang tapos ikaw na sa lahat ng gawaing bahay + taking care of the kids, ano mas prefer niyo? or none of the above?

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u/Conscious-Garden7969 — 10 days ago
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Do you believe na tumatagal ang relasyon dahil sa pagtitiis ng babae?

I mean, looking at my own. Parang nga. Hahaha ung gusto mo na sumuko pero pilit na ineextend pasensya at pag-unawa. Naghihintay nalang ba na mapagod

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u/No-Information4090 — 12 days ago

Anong view ninyo sa babae na walang kaibigan?

Yong laging mag-isa. Masama ba yon? Walang bf at walang kaibigan. Pinaparinggan niyo ba yon na dapat makipagusap siya sa ibang tao. She underwent extreme stress and bullying din. So she’s all by herself.

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u/Living-Still8172 — 11 days ago
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What's that one physical intimacy na nakakatunaw for u?

soft kisses talaga for me, sa kahit saang parts ng body hayyy. lalo na kapag tulog tapos dumampi labi niya sa noo, neck, shoulders, cheeks or hands ko tapos kikiss ng sobrang gentle 😭😭😭 tulog ako niyan please pero naffeel ko talaga 'yong dampi tangina i'm melting

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u/purematchalattae — 13 days ago
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Naiirita rin ba kayo sa mga jowang jowa?

As someone na almost in her mid twenties, pansin ko uso to sa kabataan, lalo na sa teenagers. Problema ko rin to nung highschool at college, parang tingin sayo ng ibang tao medyo loser ka pag wala ka jowa. May mga flings naman ako pero never seryoso, pero naprepressure rin ako minsan sa mga kakilala na panay tanong if may jowa na ba ako.

Lagi ko rin kasi nakikita post ng mga dati kong kaklase or bagong kakilala, kadalasan, mga either ka age ko or younger than me, sobrang jowang jowa. Like panay memes, post or parinig na jowang jowa sila. Puro jowa hanap imbis na magaral amp di ko alam if signs of aging na ba to hahaha. Kadalasan mga estudyante pa to.

Dumaan rin naman ako sa phase na ganyan pero hindi ko ginawang personality. Napansin ko rin kasi sila rin yung tipo na parang huhusgahan ka if wala ka jowa, o kaya gagawa big deal na nasasaktan sila if may makita sila na magjowa sa movie (kaklase ko dati ganito hahaha), na kesho di daw nila kakayanin if third wheel sila in a friend group outing.

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u/Miserable_Hyena7164 — 12 days ago

What are your thoughts on men na nangungutang sayo? Red flag na ba agad yon?

Red flag ba kung you’ve been talking to this man tapos nakakailang utang na siya sayo? Hindi naman siya namimilit ah at hindi din naman ako nagbibigay. Kailangan naman niya talaga pero minsan napapaisip ako bakit parang sobrang comfortable niya magsabi saken? Hindi pa kami ah. Ibig sabihin ba non hindi niya ako ganon kagusto? Kasi nabasa ko noon na hindi makakapagsabi sayo ang lalaki kapag gusto ka niya talaga.

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u/periperiodt — 11 days ago

Trust pills + raw sex, safe ba?

Hi guys, need advice lang kasi medyo kinakabahan kami ng GF ko 😅

Last period niya started Sept 6, then nag-start siya ng Trust pills Sept 22. Consistent naman siya, walang missed pills.

Nag-sex kami Sept 29 and 30 (pill day 8 and 9). May condom naman sa ibang rounds, pero may times na raw. Hindi ako sure if may accidental ejaculation, pero hindi naman ako intentionally nag-finish inside.

Today is Oct 3, and she's on pill day 12. Gusto na rin niya mag-stop ng pills kasi hindi niya kinakaya yung side effects.

Safe na ba siya during Sept 29–30 since naka-7 days na siyang pills? And if she stops now, may effect ba yun sa sex na nangyari na?

Need advice please, thank you 🙏

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u/Adrenaline_highs — 12 days ago

Ano pahiwatig pag minention ng girl na may period sya?

Naalala ko lang yung ka talking stage ko before. Di ko alam tamang response dito pero kinamusta ko lang sya at kinomfort that time.

TIA, baka may matutunan. haha.

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u/No_Name999999 — 11 days ago

Gusto ko mag breakup sa gf kasi feel ko, di ko pa kaya mag provide sa kanya?

5 months pa kami ng gf ko 26 sya 27 ako, may stable naman ako na job, tas earning 30-40k per month. Learning Korean din to work there once makapasa. She's great naman and understanding and has her own job pero breadwinner kaya wala natitira , pero feel ko lagi nya hininint mag marry lang sya and settle once may bahay na and stable. I'm working on it naman, pero feel ko na prepressure ako and naiinsecure.

I have a provider mindset din talaga, kaya lahat dates and mga gastos ako gumagastos which I'm happy naman, pero grabi insecure parin ako

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u/Lurkerszfg2 — 11 days ago

Anyone here who dated guys who used to use dating apps a lot and partied a lot? How’d it go?

Do they ever let go of that lifestyle without you forcing them to do so? Haha

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u/liucixin1998 — 11 days ago

Gusto magbikini pero hindi kaya magpa-wax down there, what po ginagawa nyo?

Hello girls, just want to ask po sa mga hindi nagpapa-brazilian wax (mababa pain tolerance) pero nakakapag two-piece or one piece sa beach trips nila, ano po ginagawa nyo or ano po routine nyo pag nagse-shave? Any tips po? Please help this girl out. Thank you

i tried na ishave talaga but kita pa din ung hair na parang may tuldok tuldok hahaha. Medyo makapal din kasi ung tubo ng hair ko plus balbon pa. 😫

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u/Matcha__a — 10 days ago

how do you stay grounded and not imagine future with another person that's not your boyfriend yet?

I’ve heard it’s really common in women na gumawa yung brain natin ng imaginary future with the person you just met, lalo na kung crush mo or gusto mo.

how did you distract yourself from this? Probably any action that you did either mentally or physically

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u/Kooky_Plates — 11 days ago

Hi, ano pong best flower pang birthday gift sa LDR na gf kung hindi mo pa alam yung gusto niyang bulaklak mismo?

Nakakahiya naman siya tanungin, gusto ko kasi siya i-surprise =) iniisip ko kung pwedeng sunflower e... at ilan kasi po ipapadeliver ko lang. thanks in advance.

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u/SeniorDeLaNoche777 — 11 days ago

Is casual dating okay while moving on?

I honestly don’t know what else to try in my moving-on process. I’ve tried going out, keeping myself busy, picking up new hobbies, etc., pero parang nothing is really helping. My friends are also starting to get tired of hearing me talk about the same situation 😭

The only thing I haven’t tried is casual dating. If ever I do go on a date, I’ll be upfront naman na it’s casual and that I’m still in the process of moving on. I don’t want to lead anyone on or make them think I’m ready for something serious.

Do you guys think casual dating can help with moving on, or baka lalo lang akong ma-confuse?

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u/No_Drama6406 — 10 days ago

Women of this AskPinay, have you had a conversation with the men in your life about the Cornell57? Why and why not?

This is such a depressing and infuriating topic to even have but it's a conversation that needs to be had. I'm talking about this with my fiancé and he said something like, "women should really have this conversation with the men in their lives because it's so telling about what kind os people they aree specially if they support or make excuses for those men" and so here I am asking about this.

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u/bored_patata — 13 days ago

Should I push through with my Taiwan solo trip despite feeling self-conscious?

Hi everyone! I’ve been solo travelling since 2019, although my last solo trip was back in 2023. I’m coming back to Taiwan next month for a week on my own, pero to be honest, medyo naghe-hesitate ako if tutuloy pa ba ako.

I’ve gained quite a bit of weight over the past couple of years and I feel like I don’t have the same confidence I used to have when I travelled before. It’s also been a while since I last went to Taiwan, so I’m a little worried na baka ma-conscious lang ako the whole time.

I’m also scared na baka pagtawanan ako or magkaroon ako ng bad experience with locals or other tourists because of how I look. I know baka iniisip ko lang too much, but it’s genuinely making me question if I should still go.

For anyone who has been in a similar situation, maybe you’ve travelled solo while feeling self-conscious about your appearance or after gaining weight, how was your experience? Did you still enjoy your trip? May tips or advice ba kayo for me?

Please be kind. ♥️

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u/Tight_Importance1386 — 11 days ago

What do you wear on a first date?

Ladies, what do you usually wear on a first date if it’s a dinner date + a mini activity?

It’s been two years, and I’m finally fully healed and ready to put myself out there again. 😅 I’m going out with a guy soon and I really want to put some thought into what I’ll wear. I’m just torn between something casual, more smart casual or neither.

Would love to hear what you ladies usually wear for this kind of date! Also, not sure if this is the right sub, so apologies if it isn’t. Thank you! 🫶

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u/Unable-Trash-5617 — 12 days ago