Women of Feeld (who date men) who are overwhelmed with likes, how does it feel?
I'm just curious about what the experience is like for women and female presenting users who are seeing hundreds or even thousands of likes on Feeld. What does that sort of situation do to you?
Like as a man on the app here - even as one half of a couple - I've got crickets. And it's a similar story on other apps too. And even though I know I'm generally pretty confident and my self esteem is pretty healthy, it's hard to not take it quite personally (even though I know my situation is the same as most other men). As a pshychotherapist friend of mine put it - the human brain didn't evolve to deal with this much rejection, and it sure does take its toll after a while.
But what's it like on the other side? What does it do to your self esteem? How does it make you feel about yourself, about how you value yourself? How does it make you feel about online dating, or dating in general?