u/absolutely_not65

I mean specifically annoying to people/groups they care about. Fears being seen as too much, constantly thinking that everyone has to be SO annoyed with them because they talk too much or are weird or too clingy or whatever the reason.

The "being annoying" part interests me because there's all this talking about type 4 feeling broken and misunderstood, there's also type 9 that wants peace, type 3 that wants to be appreciated, 2 that wants to be loved. But I specifically wonder about thinking that everyone secretly is just fed up with you and your weird ass accompanied by the need to explain yourself and your motivations so that they know it makes sense you are like this and tell you you're cool they get it. At the same time, there's not much social anxiety or shyness and also quite a lot of non conformity. Just the brain playing on repeat "do they think I'm annoying". Asking for a friend...