having a hard time getting organised as a woman
I got in touch with a local group (the only one) in my area and i met a lot of the members (cis males), i went to a few open “events” they did and i met my partner who is organised there as well. At first i did not consider getting organised just keeping in touch but i changed my mind and now i also have time to spare since quitting my job. I mentioned that i was interested and considering getting organised and his reaction was completely different from what i expected. He told me that “it is too hard being in the group” and that id distract him. At that moment i felt horrible and my mind started spiralling that his reaction was completely sexist and if i was a man he would never say that to me. I dont know if this post is allowed or what to expect please keep in my mind that i am fairly young and new to this also english is not my first language so sorry for any mistakes i just wanted to share my experience and get a few opinions.