u/adoryable12

Did a search here and other subreddits, didn't find what I am looking for. Three siblings, all on the same page. One 81 year old parent, one 83 year old parent who is in hospice. Multiple Apple devices. All of the accounts you can imagine, and then some. (I use LastPass at work, but assume there are better options out there)

Looking for a system that an admin (me) can manage that:

• all siblings can access to get username / pwd info (and we can share notes if possible)
• the 81 YO can use with minimal frustration to:
  • Look up her husbands accounts, or accounts she doesn't use frequently
  • Update stored passwords when she resets them
  • See whose email an account is connected to
• She doesn't need a comprehensive mobile interface, as she uses a desktop for a lot of things.

All children are tech adept (some of us more than others :) ). Prefer free set-up, but would pay small amount for peace of mind.

Whatcha got?

Did a search here and other subreddits, didn't find what I am looking for. Three siblings, all in agreement and good relationships with each other. One 81 year old parent, one 83 year old parent who is in hospice. Multiple Apple devices. All of the accounts you can imagine, and then some.

Looking for a system that an admin (me) can manage, that all siblings can access, and that the 81 YO can use with minimal frustration to:

- Look up her husbands accounts, or accounts she doesn't use frequently
- Update stored passwords when she resets them
- See whose email an account is connected to

All children are tech adept (some of us more than others :) ). Prefer free set-up, but would pay small amount for peace of mind.

Whatcha got?

At our very small nonprofit, my multi-hyphenate responsibilities include tech and IT by the “not it” method. I actually have a background in tech project management and can figure things out, so so far so good. I’m the one who sources and sets up any tech we use, and I’m good at it.

We like Trello. We want to go beyond 10 users. I have been navigating Atlassian and their billing and I suddenly feel like I’m watching TV on an alien planet where I don’t understand the language or customs. I’ve spent too much lost time figuring out log in/workspace/wtf is Jira and I need to move on.

I want a scalable kanban that allows up to 20 users at an affordable rate. Bonus if it integrates with Slack, but I’m okay using Zappier as duct tape. Needs to be intuitive for non-tech people, not require a lot of babysitting after initial setup, and mobile friendly.

Also, if you are a non profit without IT and using Atlassian successfully, what’s the secret?

I’ve searched this sub (and others) and haven’t found a similar question asked. My stepdad (83) is in the ICU and is physically doing well, all things considered. It’s been a month, and he’s on a trach tube. As soon as he can do 24 hours without supplemental oxygen he can be discharged to a subacute facility.

He’s been through tremendous stuff A stroke, heart surgery, collapsed lung, ventilation. He’s physically doing GREAT. my mom visits everyday, kids are visiting, nursing care is great.

But he’s angry, and depressed (understandable). He was never the happiest camper, but now he’s just saying he’s done and wants to die. He’s literally days away from being discharged and just wants to give up.

The psychiatrist at the hospital is beyond horrible. Like reportable horrible. He’s cannot be used as a resource.

My mom is despondent - she’s doing everything we can think of to keep him motivated. To be clear, he is not on life support. He’s breathing on his own. He does have a feeding tube. Before this he and my mom were happy - great life with grandkids, friends, hobbies.

I’ve been depressed and lost a parent to suicide. I feel at peace with all aspects of the spectrum of wanting to die. But this feels different - it truly feels situational. And I do NOT fault him. But what can we do, other than being with him?

Please do not advise us to let him decline care. We have discussed that at length, and are not blind to the question or possible answers, that’s not what I’m looking for right now. My comparison (not equivalent) is when I did chemo. I hated it. I wanted it to stop. But the only way out was through. His only way out right now is through.