relearning how to be feminine
For those who detransitioned/retransitioned to a feminine identity, what helped you get back in the habits of femininity? I mean like shaving your body consistently, making time to do your makeup before you leave the house, styling your clothes in a feminine way (also rebuying feminine clothes), growing your hair out, etc. Obviously this is all very subjective, i'm not saying there's one way to be feminine. And if your idea of femininity radically changed, I'm interested in hearing that experience too. But I genuinely enjoy a lot of traditional femininity, especially wearing makeup. And I'm having a hard time feeling feminine again. I look at other women with such envy, feeling like I can't be like them again. I don't want to be perceived as a masculine woman. And it's a funny position to be in because so many cis women are trying to move away from traditional femininity but for me i'm already so far outside of "normal".