u/againAYM

Help me please (m17) (s16)

I don't know how to react.

I am 17 years old, and my girlfriend is 16. We are in a long-distance relationship.

My girlfriend and I have been dating since December 25, 2025, and during this entire time, I haven't gone out with friends even once. We are in a long-distance relationship, and I don't have any friends here. However, in two weeks, on my way to visit my girlfriend, I’m stopping by a major city where a close friend of mine—whom I’ve known for over 12 years—is coming with his girlfriend. They will be there for two days and invited me to hang out with them. In general, I'm going to spend about a week together with my girlfriend. I really want to go out with my friends, especially since the last time I actually went out to hang out was back in September 2025.

My girlfriend says it's obvious that my friends are more important to me than she is, and that's why I'm staying. This makes me feel so guilty.

What should I do? Please help me with some advice!

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u/againAYM — 1 day ago