Closure needed
Hi everyone,
I had a situationship basically, and I have found it really hard to make peace with things. I find that I actually miss him and not the idea of him.
We ended things because he needed to pull back as he wasn’t ready to commit as things had gotten a lot in his life, and has been stressful (we’d been dating for 7 months). Looking back, he never was going to choose me. I know this. I found out he’s back on the dating apps.
All I want to know, is why he did that. I can’t seem to get over the hump of missing him. It’s like we ended for the wrong reasons (it sounds stupid I know). It’s like we were supposed to keep working through things.
How bad is it if I reached out purely to ask what I want to ask and get that closure, so I can have peace. The last couple of days I’ve had the niggle to text him. I’ve even dreamt about it. It’s really playing on me and eating me up.
Any help/advice is welcome. Just a girl trying to navigate herself in the best way