u/allofthem_in1

I’m trying to run a clean test with Feeld Uplift and would like feedback from people who have actually used it.

Context:

* 35 Straight man

* Partnered / ENM

* Located in Northern NJ, dating mostly NYC + NNJ

* Profile recently cleaned up

* Trying not to waste the 24-hour Uplift window

My current thinking is:

Sunday evening around 6:30–7:30 PM might be the best time because it captures Sunday night scrolling and carries into Monday after-work browsing.

Second option would be Thursday around 7 PM, since people may be planning weekend dates.

For people in NYC/NJ or similar large metro areas:

Has Uplift actually worked for you?

What day/time gave the best results?

Would Sunday evening better than Thursday evening?

I’m a project manager/PMO in media tech trying to understand whether I’ve effectively drifted into Product Ops / Process Ops work without the formal title.

Would love the takes from actual Product Ops/management people.

My current role supports engineering teams responsible for a CMS platform and Content APIs used by editorial/news operations. Over time, I realized the part of the role I like doing is not the boring traditional Project Management coordination, but actually designing the systems around execution.

Some examples of what I spend a lot of time doing (because i'm into it):

• Designing workflows around how work moves through delivery in Jira
• Structuring Jira systems (statuses, issue types, workflow logic, reporting rules)
• Building Confluence/Jira-fed dashboards for operational visibility that show where the work is.
• Defining metrics like velocity, rollover, capacity, dev-complete vs released work
• Identifying bottlenecks and aging work
• Standardizing how delivery performance is measured
• Creating SOPs, onboarding guides, work agreements, process flow charts + general process documentation
• Improving cross-team operational flow between engineering, APIs, editorial stakeholders, PMO, etc.
• Building automations/reporting layers to reduce ambiguity and manual work

The actual “fun” part of my job for me is the systems/tooling/process design side. I tend to go on side quests building reporting, workflows, dashboards, and operational tooling because I enjoy improving how the machine works.

Where I get a bit confused is this:

In my world there are:

1. Editorial workflows inside the CMS product itself
2. Engineering delivery workflows used to build CMS features
3. The operational systems/reporting/tooling layer sitting around both

Would Product Ops typically own #3?

And does this sound like Product Ops / Process Ops / Business Systems territory to you guys, or something else entirely?

I wanna make the jump, I applied to 2 product ops manager roles and got rejected because I didn't have experience with Air table

what do you all think?

**35M straight**

To the women/femmes in this subreddit: how common or uncommon is this kink/fetish?

I used to think women rimming men was extremely niche, but I keep seeing it show up in porn more often now, sometimes even when it isn’t clearly labeled.

Male-to-female rimming seems pretty normalized these days, but what about the other way around?

I’m trying to separate porn reality from dating-app reality.

Would this be hard to find on Feeld, or is it uncommon but findable in kink/fetish circles?

Also, how would I go about signaling this interest in a profile?

A few partners I’ve had did it to me, but only after we knew each other well.

Most straight men seem uncomfortable talking about it or joke that it’s “gay,” but anatomically, it makes perfect sense that it feels good (plenty nerve endings in that area)

There have to be women who are into it or curious to try it, but it still seems very uncommon in mainstream culture, or at least something people don’t openly talk about.

What do you all think?