The only thing that matters is money
Context: I’m 34(F) married with a kid living in Europe, basically I only do side gigs and my husband provides for us. We live kasama ng parents nya though we have pur separate house din within the propperty. So basically i’ve decided to continue my PhD in Food science and nutrition which is fully supported ng husband ko and his parents were excited and even told me na dapat 4 years ago after my Masters ginawa ko na though I had my son while doing my Masters so di kaya but everyone is happy except one person, my mom.
When I told her unang tanong nya anong trabaho at magkano kikitain mo dyan, magaaral ka ng 3 years tapos ano and seriously I just got pissed off. I haven’t talked to her for a month almost kasi I don’t want her to rain on my parade.
I’ve started looking for advisers na and I have professors that are interested, I’ll be the first Filipina doing it here and I just don’t understand bakit ganun, I never get her full support on anything I wanna do. It’s just sad na eventually I would rather stay away to keep my peace.
I just want to let this all out… atleast I have my husband, my son and his family to support me in my dreams 🩷
I still can’t get her words out of my head when she told me na gusto ko lang maglinis ng banyo kaya ako nag HRM…