u/amberbroadcast

I'm at a point where I'd really like to meet someone I can feel close to. I've been single for a long time, and even though I'm good on my own, I'd love to share life with the right person. I'm shy in person, so meeting people has been hard for me. I'm hoping for something that can grow into a romantic, long-term relationship.

I like someone thoughtful, kind, and honest. I care a lot about how people treat each other, and I'm happiest around someone who can be present and real. I'm a transgender woman, and I'm looking for someone who's fully comfortable with that.

Neurodivergence doesn't bother me. If you're autistic, have ADHD, or just feel a little different in how you're wired, we might even understand each other better.

I try to eat healthy and stay fit, but I'm not obsessive about it. I'm a non-smoker and non-drinker, but coffee is absolutely my vice. I like dogs more than cats, although I don't have any pets myself, and I'm a night owl.

My style is lowkey and simple. I like weekend drives, thrift shops, bookstores, coffee dates, and quiet walks. I'd especially enjoy meeting someone with a nerdy hobby, like ham radio, homelabbing, or maker-type projects.

I'd rather be home than go out. I love old films, especially French and Italian films, and mellow jazz (Chet Baker, Coleman Hawkins, Bobby Hackett). I'm a fan of cozy candlelit evenings and that quiet lazy-afternoon feeling. I enjoy learning new things and tinkering with tech. Peaceful days beat chaotic ones for me.

I'm hoping to meet someone in Arizona, since that's where I live. I'm only interested in someone who is truly single, so if you're married, even if it's complicated or effectively over, we're not a match. I'm also generally most attracted to men older than I am.

If it sounds like we might get along, I'd love to hear from you :)