Advice on how to make your partner lust for you
Hi,
My partner and I have been together for over 10 years and care for each other deeply. We have great sex but I want him to initiate more and I want to feel that he wants me, desires me. He is more, shy I guess is the right term.
There have only been a few times that he has approached me with lust.
I love how much he cares for me and is gentle. I know he finds me attractive but the feeling of having him want me so bad that he has to have me is not really there.
I do not want to change who he is and this is not really a personality trait he really has. I also don't want him to feel that he does not satisfy me, cause he does.
We have talked in the past about how he likes when a woman takes what she wants. I just want to feel that from him as well, at least a little bit.
Since conversations have already happened, is there anything I can do to make him desire me more?
I've worn sexy outfits, given him peaks at my naked body as if I don't notice him looking. I just don't know if there is anything else I can do