Neutral advice about learning how to overcome all-ins
I post here often with my experiences and looking for advice. I will not say any opinions because I just get drawn into debates which is not productive.
I just want to get through this rut I'm in which is characterized by losing a lot to all-in strategies.
Things I've tried:
- Doing them myself to learn the counter. This inflated my elo a lot, eventually I start losing but I don't really get much of a clear takeaway other than once I get to 1400 (my usual is around 1200) the level of execution of my opponents is high enough that the strategy doesn't matter.
- Scouting. I have gotten much better at this, but even when I see it coming I still lose a lot.
- (assuming I scout that it's an all-in) Walling up. I just find that a hoard of early castle knights / UU or whatever melt the walls. It helps only to prevent a really really bad forward castle position.
- (assuming I scout that it's an all-in) Heavy feudal pressure. This sometimes works, but you can still get so much military if you a) sell stone / other res at the market and b) turtle up super small. I will say that if they have a bad map, I have found the feudal pressure a bit more effective.
- (If I don't succesfully scout / realise it's an all-in). In this instance I really don't see any hope of winning without an enormous skill differential.
After quite a bit of practice I am still more-or-less hard stuck against these strategies. Any other recommendations for things to try / examples from other's experiences are very welcome.