u/ariapplepie

Hi all,

Anyone else have issues with mismatched libidos/being the ones to initiate sexting/setting up hook ups? I have a fuck buddy who I have really good sex with but our schedules only let us meet up maybe once every 2-3 weeks.

As you guys know, testosterone makes me horny as hell and I find myself being the main one to reach out and mention that I’m thinking abt something we did last time, that I’m excited to see him again, etc. It starts feeling somewhat humiliating after a while though, it’s something I’m discussing in therapy. He does also initiate, just not nearly as much. Am I just gonna have to outsource and find some good sex for that 2-3 week break period 😭