Losing urge to orgasm after bottoming
Hey peeps, looking for some advice.
I’m(cis male 36) recently single after an over decade long relationship with a strict bottom. I’ve always identified as vers and I’m bottoming again.
I used to be able to flip fuck all day long (admittedly I’m also much older than I used to be) but now I find myself struggling to cum after bottoming. I know this can be fairly common but I was looking to see if anyone has any advice to get myself back to being a vers king?
This also isn’t so much an issue of staying hard or losing an erection. I can stay aroused but that illusive big O is hard to find after my prostate gets worked over. Or at least that’s what I think is happening?
Not sure if men’s Kegel exercises help, or any other kinds of tips or tricks? It could also just be a sign of the times, and I top first, or have my top make sure I come during the act of bottoming itself…
Any advice is welcomed!