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this image immediately made me think of this sub

sauce from: gyarutau @ bsky social -> https://bsky.app/profile/gyarutau.bsky.social/post/3mwvxxv3sh22r

sauce: https://bsky.app/profile/rem.bsjky.team/post/3mnkbs76w2c2n

by rem bsjky team on bluesky

im sorry if this doesnt belong here but this pic is just too precious to not share :3

sauce: https://bsky.app/profile/grs22.bsky.social/post/3mkg2ljffvc2g

original by punk rock loser (grs22 bsky social)

this is my kind of yuri where they start out as 'guys' and end up being gay girls for each other :3 /

sauce: https://bsky.app/profile/basil-mage.bsky.social/post/3mmvytj6e2s2f

original by Basil (basil-mage bluesky social)

cute art and it immediately reminds me of this sub :D /

sauce: https://bsky.app/profile/geckowo.bsky.social/post/3mmsaygq6ss2g

original by geckowo (bluesky)

a bit long so i might try to cook up some tl;dr below. didn't post it in the intersex subreddit since i actually didn't go there much, and it's not that intersex related perhaps, mostly about social transition issues.

also made the meme a bit more general, than specifically about my condition :3

Yeah I have been holding up on, uhh...this issue. So I have been really eggy for the longest time, and a year ago I found out I might be intersex. my fem second puberty started around that time and it made me really happy.

but yeah, while im okay with my body getting more feminine by day, i feel increasingly concerned about presenting myself esp since my boba was unexpectedly got bigger than i expect =_= and i dread starting drama and have my peaceful life shattered since i actually dont mind living as a guy or being addressed male, or wearing male clothes all the time

but yeah most of my distaste is getting catcalled by guys. i dislike being the target of male gaze so much, but if it's with girls that are okay and happy with it, im kinda curious about trying it in private, still didn't go through the hassle of buying them for myself tho due to complicated family issues and how they're still traditionalist about gender and im lazy to hide it if i got it :3

no desire to change my legal name and gender either. nothing especially dysphoric about it either, only slight annoyance at worst :o

though yes, i did live in yeah that country ppl call 'wkwkland', to not gave a direct target. i was kinda lazy to look up about how it works for visibly trans or intersex people in here. i feel like it might be filled with unpleasant and complicated details when i just want to vibe so i'm lazy to study it.

i did remember an intersex man named aprillo who was assigned female at birth and were the star of the national (female) volleyball team back then. he did get a surgery to fix his hypopsadia something with his name and gender changed. though yeah due to my procrastination i dont really look up on viable plans in case i got outed. esp since there's so much an oversized comfy clothes can cover and i dont plan to dress like a sack just to pretend to be a fat guy and sacrifice my comfort.

i personally dont want any of the medical and surgery stuff since i was healthy, and my health had been getting better after my second puberty started :D / nor any of the legal changes. also yeah, esp since if i want to be with someone i want to be with a girl without getting bamboozled by anti lgbtq laws in here :3

just yeah, is there any way to just not come out or say anything at all since i had been really lazy to say anything to my family. and if there's a problem how do i best handle to just preserve my peace bit by bit ^o^ /

tl;dr: my body went weird and turned me into a girl and im happy, but yeah how do i reinforce this closet without sacrificing my comfort or is there any good advice i can take a step at a time, if i'm not lazy :3 /

just in case, i did live far from big cities and i don't think this country has even any decent lgbtqia+ support and i often feel my condition may be too weird for others to understand.

also yeah, i really should pay this more urgency since it might concern survival in the long run :D

thanks for reading all these long-ass message btw :o

found something really wholesome when i jumped ship from twitter to bluesky today since their new system and algorithm fiasco was making it unbearable lol

will be posting about the instagram reel below

another interesting discussion i got from jp twitter :D /

while i was lurking in jp twitter to browse banger anime arts and some hot takes, i came across these series of tweets by no game no life's author, kamiya yuu-sensei

the twitter is @ yuukamiya68

i just set this as gender nonspecific instead of transfem since kamiya yuu said 'himself' is firmly male and i'll respect that, but what do you think? i feel like no matter how 'he' identifies as, the context of the words is still interesting for discussion.

ren-chon giving ggd

been watching the anime rn and happen to screencap this one and the context seem to fit enough in here

sauce: non non biyori nonstop ep 4

the source is from kylie maria's about me comments section on her site. i tagged it as nsfw since the site itself has nsfw content, even if this one is not. and i think the context is them speaking to kylie first about their experience and when the 'cis guy' end up replying like this, i was like, okay this belong to egg irl :D

i censored all the names aside from catilin jenner, am i doing it right :o /