went on several dates, how to tell them i chose someone else but keep the door open in case it doesn't work out
I (22F) have been seeing two persons at the same time. Nothing serious yet, i matched with both within days of each other and ive gone on 4 dates with one, F. (20F) and 3 with the other, T. (26NB). I have great chemistry with T but i feel more confortable with F. I havent been in a relationship before and i feel more comfortable with F, who hasnt been in one either. T is a serial dater, and 4 years older than me (22F), also very active sexually which i'm not.
I dont really know how to tell T that i dont want to see them anymore, should i mention the other person, or merely that they're going too fast for me etc? and like, we had great chemistry besides that and we get along really well, so i dont want to close that door completely in case it doesn't work out with F.
T and I have been texting nearly every day and told each other we would be going out again soon. We kissed multiple times as well, i went to their apartment and met one of their friends. I dont think a simple "i've decided to be exclusive with someone, good continuation :)" is gonna cut it.
This is my first reddit post ever and im not really on the website in general, please forgive any mistake or tell me if you need more information or idk. I welcome any answer bc im a bit desperate atp and my friends are tired of hearing about this lmao