any advice :)
Hi i have only just found this group. I’m a GF of a CD and have been together for 6 yrs. we have just had our first baby. it’s always been a thing in our relationship. trust has been broken many times after me finding things out or being lied too. The last few years have become easier. He goes to counselling and now just dresses up in his office and i just don’t associate myself with it at all. It’s been hard and i don’t love that he does it. i would rather it not be a thing but i go along with it because it makes him happy and it was becoming an issue in our relationship.
he has recently asked if he can start going out dressed up. Not with me but just with some other CD friends. i don’t know how i feel about this as it feels it takes to a whole other level and i already feel i’ve been stretched to my limits with this topic.
i’ve never spoken to anyone about this and it’s felt quite lonely. just wondered if anyone related to me as sometimes me saying no to things i feel so horrible.