u/betho_wagyu

I’ve (34F) recently started using dating apps for the first time after a 10 year painful breakup. This experience is all new to me. I’ve been hit with men either ghosting or flaking on dates each time. Conversations were great at first and then the day prior or day of the date, the date either gets canceled or I hear nothing back. The men I’ve matched with are average and aren’t in the top 5%. I am so disappointed that this is becoming the norm. I feel very discourage and lost a lot of hope to find love again. What am I doing wrong?