Hardest transition?
We struggled going from 0-1, mainly because our baby was very demanding (never had a sleepy newborn phase, very alert and active from the beginning etc.), but also because of the huge identity shift you go through after becoming a parent. We still want a big family, but I feel like everybody talks about how terrible it is to go from 1-2 kids etc, and how going from 0-1 was nothing compared to that. Maybe I'm delusional, but I feel like our newborn phase was soo intense that I can't imagine it being any worse? But of course i realize that it depends on the temperament of baby number two haha. So I'm interested in what people with many kids think was the hardest transition? Especially if you had a demanding first child, how did it go to have number 2/3/4 etc.?