u/bingbong24344

I have a surgery date. I’m scared.

I’m 6 months post op lumbar fusion and occult tethered cord release.. NOW I need OC fusion & surgery is scheduled.

Please, give me tips on how to get through this :’)

Can someone tell me that the pain, the bobble head feeling, the motion sickness, the pain & weakness in my arms and face goes away.. that I’ll get my cognitive function back 🥺

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u/bingbong24344 — 3 days ago

Longtime cleaner of 2 years suddenly ghosted me?

**update: I was ghosted lol. My friend texted her pretending to be a client asking for a quote for services and she replied immediately. 😅

I had the same cleaning team for about 2 years now, a mother/daughter duo plus their friend, and they’ve always been lovely. They cleaned my house recently, and afterward I texted to book our next few cleanings like I normally do.

No reply.

It’s now been 2 weeks, and I’ve sent 4 texts total with no response at all.
I’m genuinely not upset, I’m honestly concerned and hoping everything is okay.

That said, the last few appointments have been a little rocky (and they’ve rescheduled a good amount of times in the past) . One cleaning was rescheduled. The appointment before this was canceled literally 10 minutes before they were supposed to arrive because one of the helper’s kids got sick at school (totally understandable). Before that, it was canceled because of a doctor’s appointment (which is why I’m concerned, I hope everything is okay and that I’m not over thinking)

So now I’m sitting here wondering if something happened, if they’re overwhelmed, if they’re quietly stepping away from clients, or if I should take the hint and move on? Literally, nothing happened between us and my husband and I think they’re great.

I don’t want to be insensitive if there’s something serious going on, especially after working with them for so long. But I also feel weird continuing to send messages into the void & I still need cleanings every 2 weeks 😅

If you were me, would you send one final “just checking in, hope everything is okay” message and leave it there? Or start looking for someone new?

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u/bingbong24344 — 10 days ago

It’s a never ending shit show for me health wise.. I am recovering from neurosurgery + lumbar fusion and now my neurosurgeon is investigating (and expediting) my severe CCI symptoms due to how bad it’s been.

Cervical collar trial is going great and I see a massive improvement.. only question is, what imaging is typically ordered diagnosing? Xray?

I do have anterolisthesis at C2-C3 & 2 bulged discs & reversed cervical lordosis.

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u/bingbong24344 — 2 months ago