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My sister is being verbally abused . I am scared things might get escalated . How to handle things legally?

My sister got married 4 years back. Here are the problems:
1- Her husband had a breakup before marriage which left him mentally ill ( schizophrenia) but he labels as ghost taking over . It was disclosed after wedding.
2- He stopped my sister from going out or meeting anyone.
3- My dad and he had issues because one of my cousin got married in different caste and he wanted my dad not to support which led to bigger fight. My dad apologised him but he didn’t care it’s been more than a year.
4- He never helps with baby as per his mom he is not allowed to change diaper of a baby girl.
5- He keeps on emotionally abusing my sister by keep on blaming and he has started verbal abuse as well. If my sister tells him anything he keeps on hitting himself.
6- His parents also keep on supporting him and blames my sister and dad that they have made him like this. He has self harm tendencies.
7- His mom keeps on demanding “gifts” from us.

They own a house , my sister had paid the downpayment and EMIs . Her husband is co applicant.

There will be no alimony involved , maybe child support.

My sister has become numb she doesn’t react to anything and that man is getting miserable everyday. I don’t want to wait until things escalate to physical abuse.

Please let me know how to proceed.

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u/bitch-pleease — 2 days ago

What should I buy projector or a TV ?

I was planning to buy a TV but it’s been 15years since I binged watched anything in TV. I left my home for studies then for Job I used to stay in PG. tbh I don’t know how to configure these smart TVs.

And now for some unknown reason the projector reels are all over my feed.

So I am confused what to get. If I get a TV i have to keep it in my living area , I don’t have couch or AC.
In bedroom I have to do the drilling for TV unit.

Projector seems fancy and convenient but I don’t know anything about it. The pros that I could see is I don’t have to do any setup.

Please suggest me what would be better. Also suggest me brand.

Budget is 20k can stretch till 25k.

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u/bitch-pleease — 5 days ago
▲ 64 r/office

It’s almost 1:30 AM and I am not able to sleep because of office politics. I work with people from multiple region across the globe.

One of my colleague who considers me as “friend”has a tendency of getting involved in my work and take the credit. Any new idea I share , she implements it and showcase as hers. There are instances where I had to bluntly tell her to stop getting involved in my work.

In one of my meeting , she mentioned my work as hers then I had to dive into detailed explanation to prove that it was mine.

Today I was preparing a presentation with all my reports , she asked me couple of questions and I was stupid enough to answer her then logged off at 8 PM . Just now now I got a mail that she has completed it with same idea and shared with the TL.

I really don’t know how to handle this situation. I feel like I am done playing the friend and letting her walk over me again and again.

I always believed in team work.

But I am clueless what to do!

Please help me.

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u/bitch-pleease — 24 days ago