pain when trying to do stuff in bed (help)
hi, speaking for my bf not myself. the both of us are young and virgins and have been trying to slowly move into having sex but there have been a couple issues and i wanna know if its even possible for us to do so.
the only time i tried to give him a handjob, he says it hurts when i pull the skin down too far (i wasnt trying to it was on accident i really dont know how to do it 😭)
once, i saw he had some precum and touched his head (it fit the vibe ok) and he immediately recoiled in pain
i was trying to give him head and admittedly i was a lil teeth-y because i didnt have any experience but he also said it hurt a lil when i sucked on the head/skin (he said i mightve been sucking too hard)
he was fucking my thighs and more than once he had to stop because it hurt. he said the skin hurt but i feel like it couldve been his head too?
i dont know, is all this normal? ive watched porn before obviously but none of them were of uncut men and im just so lost and demoralised because it feels like i cant pleasure him directly and on top of that, i dont know how we are gonna have sex because wont the skin probably get pushed back while in the vagina?? what if it hurts him? help please 😭😭