Lost my entire savings doing revenge trading and now my credit card debt is maxed out, I have some bills due this week, and my bank account is net negative.
Genuinely so lost right now, I know it’s my fault but I make almost nothing out of my job after the bills are paid and I really just want to get out of poverty.
Just want to know if anyone has been in the same position, maybe could give some advice
Thanks
I’m genuinely sick and tired of seeing posts on this subreddit asking for advice on how to deal with being short and hearing people say shit like “bro just get a personality” and “bro just talk to women”, like please if you’re this kind of person, BRO, for the love of god, never give advice again. NEVER EVER PLEASE.
That’s like akin to saying, just get rich. Like tf ??? You’re not actually addressing the problem nor giving any advice whatsoever, you’re just actively dismissing it because it barely affects you while pushing extremely unhelpful advice to those that have dealt with shit and could genuinely benefit from getting an ACTUAL ADVICE. TELLING SOMEONE TO GET A PERSONALITY IS NOT ADVICE.
As a counterexample to show how terrible these kinds of advice are (baffles me that I even have to do this because some of you will genuinely not get the point.) My brother, being the worst person I know, this misogynistic alcoholic POS gave his own girlfriend a black eye not once. TWICE. He’s had three counts of felonies. Never finished high school. In debt, and he’s gotten down with three women. How? Guess.
Well, he’s 6 foot fucking 3. If he acted the same as a 5’3, he’d just be seen as another undesirable, pathetic loser in the eyes of those same women.
So please, (I’m genuinely at my wit’s end right now seeing these comments pop up again and again.) Stop. spreading. cope. advice. Don’t say anything if you’re just going to be anything but helpful. STOP.