u/blossom_zephyr

Am I breaking girl code with a mutual crush??

Ok so (I think) I have a crush on my friend1 (we're both 16f and she's confirmed lesbian) and there is this other friend2 (also 16f) who has a (confirmed) crush on 1. I'm not close with 2 at all, merely acquaintances (friend of a friend type), and I'm close friends with 1. If I try to go after 1, would that be breaking girl code?? But like I'm way closer to 1 than 2??? But I know that 2 has a crush on 1????

(I probably won't ever ask 1 out [I'm too chicken for that and I'm questioning aro or not] but my brain needs to know if it's permissible to crush on (or admire) 1 without guilt......)

reddit.com
u/blossom_zephyr — 6 days ago