Literally I have 0 luck with relationships. Istfg everyone at my age already dated/is dating someone and only I have like 0 experience. What is so wrong with me? The only thing I ever had was some bi-curious bitch who decided to play with my feelings. Ugh...
Hey I'm zuzu, a 17y transgirl and I've only actually met lesbian girls that are older than me and their opinion towards dating a transgirl is not so good, from my experience. I don't actually know if it's because of anatomy differences or just because someone is "trans". I actually live in a very transphobic place I don't have opportunity to meet anyone near my age who either talks about it or support it. I want to know what does girls from my generation think about it Transgirls, how much are you open to dating them or not
Thank you
It happened in grade 6. Our school has 6 sections and people get put into new sections every single year. I got put in a section where I had no friends in. I was devastated but not all too sad. But then, January 6, 2022. I met her. From across the classroom. She was the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. She wears a mask, but when I saw her for the first time, she had her mask down. Gosh, she was the prettiest girl ive ever laid eyes on. I told myself it wasn't real, the feelings. They weren't real. Why would I ever like a girl? I laughed it off. The feeling grew more and more intense. But I never though of her inappropriately. I loved with my heart, not my mind or eyes. That was the worst part. I was actually in love. It felt horrible. Im in an all girls school. I told myself I'd never get a crush and that they are a waste of time, and also because there were no boys here, obviously. Im in 9th grade now. Im still hopelessly inlove. She has no idea. We're finally friends, but I never showed signs of affection. I was always bad with emotions. I always chose logic over emotions. I cry every single night. Because of her. I hate her for making me like this. But this is also the first time I actually felt something. Im a Muslim, devoted to my religion, wanted to attain a peaceful live in the afterlife. I pray to God for some relief. To take these emotions away. I was never homophobic. I just didn't want to feel this way. Im not accepted in my country. My friends always try to comfort me when a bring it up and tell me I should maybe see a therapist. It never helps. I was wondering if there are some people who are in the same situation as me. A sin so unimaginable. A sin I never thought I'd commit. I've tried killing myself 3 times already over this. Failed all 3 times. I just wish to get hit by a speeding car. I sometimes walk into oncoming traffic, only to be pulled away by someone. She's very sweet, so kind, so smart. She's perfect. If only I were a man, loving her wouldn't be a sin.
So I (15f) just came back from a party and in there I meet this girl. We danced for a while and then stepped outside for a bit. She asked if we could kiss and I agreed so we kissed and now that I finally got back to my dorm I'm having a existential crisis in the bathroom thinking is it platonic or romantic. For extra context she is from Egypt and my age so what do you guys think?
I like girls but I also like guys, I feel I am more into girls but nonstop whenever I say that people ask right away (are you bi or lez) like I have to choose a label. Does anyone else feel the same?
Ok guys, this might seem kinda sad but I swear it isn't that bad. So there's this girl at my school who I REALLY like. She's funny, smart, kind, and I'm very physically attracted to her. We only really started talking 6 months ago, but we became good friends really quickly. Anyways, I don't want to be too specific just incase some people i know see this, but about 2-3 months ago we were at a small party and she was kinda acting like I was her bf...she also put her hand on my upper thigh, said she specifically wanted me to sit next to her, calling me the huzz, etc. Another person at the party was like "Is this genuine chemistry" and we both didn't say anything.
So at this point I was kinda being delusional and spiralling, thinking that she liked me and getting my hopes up. This happened even more when we were hanging out one-on-one and we walked to this semi-romantic hiking spot and she was like "this would be the perfect makeout spot" and later touching my upper thigh again (although she is a pretty touchy person so I wouldn't take this too seriously). Anyways, some more similar stuff to this happened (I really don't wanna say cause it's so obvious and no one knows I'm bi and I wanna keep it that way) including us being in class and her pointing at me and saying I'm the most gay in our 8 person class friend group, which was so embarrassing and made me think that she was making fun of me, or maybe she thought I was acting really gay when we were together and she thinks it's weird. I started spiralling again like "how does she know i'm bi". And I feel like if she were gay she wouldn't just say that I'm gay like THAT.
So like, now I'm very sure that she doesn't like girls, let alone likes me. But I can't help it. I thought I was over her for a good week, but I had a dream about her, and since then I'm thinking about her like, a LOT. Whenever we spend time together I feel like I act kinda weird.
I'm just wondering, how can I stop liking her?
i think we’ve all been through this. was in love with my bsf for two years. anyway, spill.
Ok so (I think) I have a crush on my friend1 (we're both 16f and she's confirmed lesbian) and there is this other friend2 (also 16f) who has a (confirmed) crush on 1. I'm not close with 2 at all, merely acquaintances (friend of a friend type), and I'm close friends with 1. If I try to go after 1, would that be breaking girl code?? But like I'm way closer to 1 than 2??? But I know that 2 has a crush on 1????
(I probably won't ever ask 1 out [I'm too chicken for that and I'm questioning aro or not] but my brain needs to know if it's permissible to crush on (or admire) 1 without guilt......)
my friend for 5 years confessed that she liked me for over a year to me and Idk what to do.
So it all started when she told me that she liked smb then gave me hints that is me comes out as bi and yeah.
im bi too (we’re both girls ) and I like her too but I couldn’t bring myself to say it and now she lost feelings also given me a weird feeling (some how trying to tell me that she likes boys )
what should I do???
Bro I just want a gf and every girl I’ve ever liked either lives a million miles away is straight or doesn’t wanna come out of the closet I can’t deal.
today’s my 17 birthday and I was crying about not knowing what I want to do with my life. he doesn’t know I’m lesbian. he loves me conditionally— but he straight up said hed support me with anything unless I was gay. hes extremely homophobic and says stuff like this all the time. but hearing this on my birthday made me sob and I don’t know what to do knowing hell grow old probably hating me because I want to date a girl. I’m so tired of this that I’m considering just forcinf myself to date a boy to make him happy. i may be miserable, but I’d rather live miserably than lose him
HOLYYYY FREAK I AM SO DOWN BAD
A few days ago I made a post on here detailing and all that jazz. Not even a week after I got off call with her and realized how much I want her in my future. It’s like a freight train of revelation just crashed into me. I didn’t even realize how much I was in denial. Holy freak, I was in so much denial you could rename three other rivers to that.
Enough of that, I just realized how freaking pretty she is. I can see literal stars in her eyes and I swear I can see them light up everytime I’m around her. I catch myself staring at her without realizing it because she’s so god dang pretty AUGH MY POOR GAY HEART WHY AM I LIKE THIS
AND SHES SO FRIGGING COOLLL AND CULTUREDDDD She gets like all of my references and bands, which is funny, she didn’t know any of them when we first met. It’s like she went out of her way to learn all of them, (hopeless dream that will never happen btw) but all of her interests are genuinely so cool and elite.
AND SHES SO KINDDDDDD She loves seeing my art work and writing pieces. She loves seeing me act too whenever we‘re in our acting program. Whenever I even mention being the slightest bit cold she hugs me to warm me up and istg whenever that happens the butterflies in my stomach turn into fireworks why am i so gay help. Just yesterday, I met with her in the library and before I left SHE KISSED ME ON THE CHEEK AND I DIED AND WENT TO HEAVEN.
I lost my aviator jacket a month ago and just a few days ago I see her wearing it. I don’t think I want to have it back I died two years ago in English class and this is heaven.
I called her beautiful to her face and she went silent for a few minutes I think I fumbled and she hates me. I think that calls for me to bury myself in a hole and cry. Never again I spoke out of turn.
MY YAP IS OVER BUT MY FEELINGS ARE NOT IM GENUINELY SO DOWN BAD AND THE PERSON I SCREAM TO ABOUT HER IS SO TIRED OF ME I THINK IM GONNA PRAY TO GOD THAT SHE LIKES ME BACK
I am 17F and lesbian. My only question is... how are y'all even getting girlfriends in real life? 😭
Please drop your tips because I swear I haven't met a single bi or lesbian girl in real lifee. I dated online once and I'm done with online dating lol. I really want an actual real-life relationship.
So where are y'all finding fellow WLW? 😭✋
Okay so basically there’s this girl and we went on a field trip together. We sat next to each other bc we both didn’t have any of our friends. She kept trying to hold my hand and would always brush up past me. She kept saying she was bisexual. At like the museum we were holding hands and having rlly long eye contact. We became rlly close friends and she and her other friend invited me to go trick or treating with them. When her friend left, she was playing with my hair. Me, her, and her friend became a trio and we are very very close and have sleepovers often. She would hold me in her arms when we had sleepovers. Along with this and everything else i feel like it’s obvious she likes me but im so confused because it’s been about 5 months and nothing happened she just says we’re friends and asks me for dating advice. Me and her have the same interests and we text very often. She says she loves me. I’m slowly starting to lose feelings bc she keeps talking about other people and boys especially and I feel like im being led on. She literally passed me a note that says “i like you” and when i asked her about it she said it’s a joke. I feel like it’s obvious she likes me but i really don’t know if i like her that much to the point i would date her but i just need some closure with her feelings towards me.
I think I am only attracted to women but I am not interested in a relationship or anything with anybody really. Would I be lesbian or some kind of aromantic or something? I never know how to refer to myself as, and I know it doesn't really matter that much but it would be nice to know what some other people think :3