Mummy and daddy issues!
My boyfriend 27, turns 28 next month in July, so I asked him near the beginning of June if we should book somewhere for us and our two dogs to go away for just a short weekend for his birthday. He agreed, and we were just waiting to pick the place together.
He's only gone ahead, invited his parents WITHOUT asking me, picked the location without me knowing and booked the 2 lodges. He just dropped it on me and said they're coming. I was also having a very horrible day, he told me on father's day the plan but that was the same day I officially went no contact with my dad. How ironic!
I've already told him how I feel about him and his parents and the boundaries they push, about his mother making me feel like a child and how she tries to school me on very simple life things. I grew up with 2 very independent women, so it's an insult when she does this.
Please can someone just advise me on how to approach this matter or whether I should just end it now.