u/blueesulfur

Roommate is smoking meth(?) in the house.

Me and my boyfriend recently moved into a new place with 2 roommates, roommate 1 is fine but roommate 2 has become some cause for concern (criminal history, drug habits, etc)

he's VERY open about his past, but in a way where it kind of seems like he's bragging about it, i wouldn't really care id it was just theft or whatever but some of these crimes include assault and accidental manslaughter with almost zero remorse whatsoever and he's said verbatim before that he ALWAYS escalates if someones wronged him to ridiculous/dangerous levels so they "don't fuck with him again" during one of his many tangents he goes on
we had a problems before with someone aggressive coming to the house because of him that we reported to the landlord, but since then the remarks about "getting back at people" and showing off weapons have made me scared to report further.
however last night he was DEFINITELY smoking drugs (based on friends who've lived around addicts, it smelt like like crack or meth) Indoors in his bedroom at the back of the place and stinking out the whole house. I was aware he had an addiction issue (AFTER moving in, i'm fairly certain he's lying to the landlord that he's off them despite it being very evident in his behaviour)

besides the issues he seems fairly friendly and usually i like to try and lay it down w the person before going to the landlord (especially if eviction is on the table with serious offences lile that) but his aggression / stuff hes done that could possibly read as threats (ie showing off his weapons) is making me think it'd be better to just speak to the landlord directly?

dont want legal advice, just need some tips on how to navigate living with a guy like this, hes usually gone for days at a time / doesnt usually do it in the house at least so not always an issue but kind of drawing a line here a bit

tldr, ex con roommate smoking crack/meth in his bedroom, aggressive arrest records making me hesitant to talk

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u/blueesulfur — 20 hours ago