can yall help me figure out the true reason why my Aries bf broke up with me?
over one year into our relationship guys, were both in our early 20's. first i was trying to respect his personal space and every time he said he needed to do something or was busy i would completely understand it and even assured him that we could talk later or when hes free. apparently that bothered him after a while, he told me if i cared i would try to ask him to stay longer. ill give an example, when we would text in the evening i would ask him "are you tired babe?" because thats usually the time he goes sleep, and he would start an argument by saying "just say you wanna get rid of me its not that hard". so i thought maybe he wanted me to show him that i need him more? so fast forward a couple months later, he said he needed to study so i said okay, ill be here waiting. after studying he said he was tired so i thought well maybe he wanted me to show i need him, and i did wanted us to talk so i was like i really wanted us to talk, this and that anyway it turned into a big argument and i regretted it. a day later he told me he is tired of everything and wants to end our relationship. when only a few days ago he was mentioning how during difficult times we should hang on to each other. so i asked him do you wanna give up everything because of yesterday's argument? i apologised, he said oh well it will just happen again. and said he doesnt think it will work out. i respected his decision, didnt push it further, and because i took his answer as entirely truthful i blocked him everywhere to help me move on faster. its been 5 days since and i keep wondering... was that a real reason of a break up? or did he just found a new love interest or gone back to his ex and didnt know how to break up with me? please guys i need advice.