I feel like every single person that has approached themselves to me are always users and manipulators. Either romantic or friendly, the person always uses me for something and then just tries to gain attention for their personal gain. Luckily I dont care and know how to not give people what they want, but its so fucking annoying and really pissing me off baaaadddddddd.
Hey Fellow Aries! I had a question I wanted to ask. Does anyone else ever feel like people secretly hate Aries? I always find that people have a problem with me just for even existing. But mostly I don’t even know what I did, but I definitely have rubbed them the wrong way. It’s like people themselves start having a problem with me even if I don’t really know them.I’m curious to hear from ya’ll Have you noticed this too, or am I just overthinking it?
Any one here with an Aries Venus in retrograde in their birth chart? How has your experience been?
I just found out mine is in Rx which explains why I never vibed with the traditional explanations of an Aries Venus. Trying to find out more about it now
i think i messed it all up.. I've been talking with an aries man on and off for more than a decade (unknowing he's an aries for most of that time).. then suddenly he vanishes.. he vanished when i told him i love him..
i just recently realized and developed my feelings for him but he told me he aint ready for my emotions..
I dont understand.. he showed me all signs that he's interested in me.. we never really got to date just one night out years ago.. but suddenly when i got feelings for him he vanishes?
how long do i have to wait for him? or maybe should i even wait for him? and is being too forward on wanting to talk to him or keeping a relationship to him makes him want to repel me away from him?
oh boy I'm your typical pisces girl.. and this girl needs your help..
For me as an aries sun, sag moon it’s cancer men. I can never fall for them! I came across some that wanted to commit but I just can’t like them romantically.
This year has really put me through the ringer since end of January. Was pulled in all directions and did not take care of myself. Ran on fumes til I blew up basically. Trying to figure out what to even do with myself.
Been very caught up with what else everyone wants, how to give them what they need and be useful, I don’t even know what I want or what I want to become… or whatever! I don’t even know what I don’t know! Ya know?
Feeling super lost. Sun and Saturn are natally conjunct. And Saturn has returned for me in Aries. In being in the 1st house too, really put it all front and center.
The job I have is public, people can hear about me word of mouth throughout the county I live in. And also throughout social media. I must maintain a social media presence to make money. Not only do I do all my own marketing, scheduling, finances, social media, etc, for myself, I am also a manager who does it for the rest of my workplace.
So I cater to my own clients, everyday, do what I can for my coworkers, I go home, and I take care of the demands of my family, my husband, and whoever else who might come to me for guidance. (I am a tattoo artist. Managing a tattoo shop. And tattoo artists without meaning to, are a sort of therapist for some people. Also am located where new age stuff is accepted. I am a tarot reader and offer free readings to my coworkers, and charge a cheapish price to anyone else who hears about me. Secret menu type thing only.)
So when I say “front and center”, I felt like me slowly slipping into a spiral was public for everyone around me to see. Which added to the pressure. I felt like I walk in the room and instead of a person, or a bug, I am just one big pile of laundry and trash.
Had to take off work for a week and a half, for being “sick” (in the head). When I finally realized some things, like the harsh reality of, well everything.
I Was being physically affected by the chronic stress and overwhelm and couldn’t remember to do anything no matter how much I tried. Kept losing misplacing things, my entire body felt like I worked out so hard like crazy, but haven’t, just with folding the laundry and trying to clean the room.
I’m still trying to find my way again. I unfortunately have to go back to work despite still feeling quite lost and messed up and TIRED. The sleep debt I’ve accumulated over time is crazy. At the very least, I have been prioritizing sleep, and that has seemed to help.
So yeah
Could anyone please tell me some stuff you see in my chart?
Whatever sticks out. Good, bad, whatever.
It would just be cool to hear an outside perspective, who doesn’t know me or what I look like. And if you have any other stuff to say about whatever else feel free.
So based off my birth chart, Do you think I’m hot and cool and sexy?
Thanks,
-Aries, feeling lost and beaten up by life.
Idk what transits are causing this maybe it’s my typical Scorpio rising traits but these past 2 days I unfriended yearssss long friends without any heads up because I’m always texting first or always trying to hold friendships and relationships close, argued and emotionally cut off and cursed out people close to me showing me after they showed me their true colors, I’ve had a literal mental angry breakdown and self growth crisis realizing that I honesty don’t gaf anymore and I’m doing everything MY way and I’m done helping people and tolerating other people trying to control me, so much disrespect from lots of people I’ve tolerated for so long and I’m literally putting the foot down and fighting everyone now verbally no filter no nothin saying my true mind and not caring about how anyone feels towards my assertion of independence
Crazy week
I’m just curious… ☺️
Heyyy yalll. Taurus here (32F)
First off just want to say love you guys, love the Aires in my life.
My best friend is an Aires and she’s as Aires as they come. I’m pretty classic Taurus as well and we’ve always complimented each other pretty well. But recently her energy has become a bit overwhelming for me. She tends to say a lot of negative, judgmental, hateful things that can sometimes get to me (about other people or myself) when something makes her angry or she is annoyed (which seems to be all the time now) Im sure a lot of you can relate, but she will just say the most unfiltered rude things and insult someone’s whole blood line and wish death upon them and everyone they know and then just completely forget what they said and act like it was nothing? LOL.
So anyways I’ve tried to confront it a couple times and the response I get is “that’s just the way I am” and shuts down or recently when I told her something she said hurt my feelings her response was “I just won’t talk anymore” shuts down and then again tries to act like later it was nothing.
So I’ve been distancing myself since that conversation. But she is my best friend and I miss her and I love her.
So how to approach a conversation with an Aires in an attempt to get them to take accountability/apologize for how they hurt my feelings without you feeling like I’m attacking your character at nature? Or should I just cut my losses LOL
How can people best support Aires when they are angry? Or depressed?
Sorry if this post comes across as therapeutic just genuinely trying to understand how best to communicate with a triggered Aires
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So I have Sun in Pisces, Venus in Aries, Aries Rising and since Saturn entered Pisces in 2023, life has felt incredibly heavy with one major challenge after another. In February of this year, when saturn finally left pisces I could feel certain areas feeling much lighter. Like I found a job, then had another really good offer. By April, my professional life took life like never before. Also, idk if its Aries rising but ever since feb I became more focused on losing weight and my physical health and have been In the best shape of my life in a very long time. So, professionally and looks wise it seems like life seems much better than 2023-2026 feb.
I thought now it was my time and I could finally "stabilize" and recover from past losses. However, out of nowhere, suddenly, my husband demanded a divorce. I have been completely blindsided as even if we had problems I don't think it was this bad or that it can't be worked upon. But he's not willing to talk to me at all and is trying to proceed with the divorce asap.
Of course it has been heavily shocking for me... and I started looking for answers etc. astrologically, I saw Saturn is transiting my Natal Venus (not exact but within few degrees), and it made sense suddenly.. Before Saturn was impacting my sun sign and I had all these problems related to identity, physical self, career etc., and now its in my Venus!
Now since saturn is going to go retrograde soon, I wonder what's going to happen? Will it stop the "effect" of it? Will it slow down things? Any chance of reconciliation idk... I wish saturn would leave me alone...
Never really looked at it, I just knew my big 3. I’m 32F, complex mental health issues currently consume my life & been struggling on where to start or what to do despite having started therapy but been told I’m too unstable for it (mostly complex trauma stuff) right now. Genuinely at a loss, does my chart say anythinggggg interesting 😩
over one year into our relationship guys, were both in our early 20's. first i was trying to respect his personal space and every time he said he needed to do something or was busy i would completely understand it and even assured him that we could talk later or when hes free. apparently that bothered him after a while, he told me if i cared i would try to ask him to stay longer. ill give an example, when we would text in the evening i would ask him "are you tired babe?" because thats usually the time he goes sleep, and he would start an argument by saying "just say you wanna get rid of me its not that hard". so i thought maybe he wanted me to show him that i need him more? so fast forward a couple months later, he said he needed to study so i said okay, ill be here waiting. after studying he said he was tired so i thought well maybe he wanted me to show i need him, and i did wanted us to talk so i was like i really wanted us to talk, this and that anyway it turned into a big argument and i regretted it. a day later he told me he is tired of everything and wants to end our relationship. when only a few days ago he was mentioning how during difficult times we should hang on to each other. so i asked him do you wanna give up everything because of yesterday's argument? i apologised, he said oh well it will just happen again. and said he doesnt think it will work out. i respected his decision, didnt push it further, and because i took his answer as entirely truthful i blocked him everywhere to help me move on faster. its been 5 days since and i keep wondering... was that a real reason of a break up? or did he just found a new love interest or gone back to his ex and didnt know how to break up with me? please guys i need advice.
Hi, Aries Community!
I’m a Libra Woman with an Aries Moon and I’ve been a hot head majority of my life and grew up fighting, getting suspended, be in the principles office before school even started, have community service as a punishment sometimes, lash out with quick tempered words that would later backfire on me sometimes, or I’d move on once I calm down and forget what I said, etc.
Sometimes my Libra can filter it in time before I b low up, but sometimes when my anger supersedes me to where it’s just instant reaction and consciously I didn’t even know I got angry until I’m in someone’s face. 😕
Aries People, how do you all control your anger? Do you think I need anger management classes? Also, would you feel safe around me? A guy I was talking to on Reddit said he wouldn’t feel safe dating me. 😂😂 My explosive anger truly shows whenever I’m disrespected.
I just found out Mariah Carey is 5'9. I'm 5'8 and my grandmother was tall af'. This is just an observation.
Time for honesty; Are you passionate about it? Actually like it?
I’m curious. I always hear Leo women going into the health fields nursing or social worker. I wonder about my aries folks 😊