r/AriesTheRam

My dear fellow Aries! How’s the Eclipse in Leo been for you? Do you feel the energy has shifted, sudden revelations, clearing stuff etc?

I’ve had a huge clearing around certain family members (really heavy ancestral stuff). As almost I could suddenly see everything with clear eyes and not rose coloured glasses. Specifically I was confronted with one particular family member this week which brought back a lot of trauma but also closure and healing. On a more positive note, a romantic interest has showed up this week too! Who knows what will come out of this, but it’s been such a mood booster.

I really hope things will ease up for us soon. I’ve been feeling so depleted and I want my fiery energy back! Wishing all of you only the best.

I think depression never really goes away. Sometimes it comes in seasons, depending on how okay life feels at that particular moment.
I’m an Aries and naturally very sensitive, so I tend to overthink things a lot and easily get disappointed and let down by others over the years.
But beyond that, I’ve genuinely had some fucked-up things happen to me this year, and I think everything has just caught up with me emotionally recently.

I’m currently switching careers and honestly have no idea what I’m doing next. I feel lost. I just turned 30, and somehow I feel like I’ve failed and that my life has drastically changed in ways I wasn’t prepared for.

I also had to end my last relationship in April after realizing it wasn’t healthy or serving me anymore. So, if I’m being honest, these past few months have been hell.
Went through a breakup after being betrayed, family pressure to get married and just loosing trust in certain people in my life.

I’ve tried. I take walks, go to the beach, work out, and make an effort to see my old friends every week and hang out. I try to keep myself busy and distract myself from how I’m feeling.
But there are still days when I’m just incredibly sad, crying all night and waking up with swollen eyes. And honestly, I’m tired of feeling this way.
I just want to feel like myself again.

For those of you who have struggled with depression, how do you cope when you’re going through a really difficult season in life? What actually helped you get through it?

My favorite thing is disappearing from peoples lives. I just watch and see how they treat me and leave without notice. I mean I moved half way across the country and told two people the night before I left. Is that an Aries thing? I just seen someone say their (ex) girlfriend left them and disappeared for a year before she spoke to him again. Then they had a conversation and are now friends, she was an Aries and he was a water sign. I think people don't realize how sensitive I am and that causes me to retreat and shed whatever feeling they left on me then circle back when I have my shit together. People never pay attention to how they treat me so I don't think they pay attention to my reaction.

What's their sign? People say we're hard to be with but I don't believe that. Who was crazy enough to love you long time? What made you work? How did you meet? What made you love them? How do they make you feel? Gush about them and your love.

I feel atleast ranking basis, I feel for aries male good match would be as per ranking

1. Libra 2) Sagittarius 3) Aquarius 4) Leo 5) cancer etc....

What u all think, till now I had experience with only libra, Sagittarius & Aquarius

I’m an Aries woman with Cancer rising and I’m completely obsessed with Taurus men in general ☺️ Why?! There’s just something about their rigid personality and robustness that I find absolutely compelling. They always seem incredibly solid and comforting… like they could handle me. But not sure they’re into Aries and our intensity haha 😅 What do you guys think?

I’m very depressed. I’ve been crying every day because I feel so alone. It’s so fucking hard. I feel like I’ve been faking my happiness most of the time, but now it’s all coming out. I’m really feeling it.

As an Aries myself, I feel so misunderstood. It’s so tiring genuinely. Anyone going through the same thing?

I’ve dated a Virgo, and we were really close, but after we broke up following a whole year together, she became completely obsessive and controlling. She initiated the breakup and talked so much shit about me afterward, yet kept saying she wanted me back. I’ve constantly told her I don’t want to get back together because she takes no accountability and always plays the victim. Then she became friends with my previous ex, and a year later, she started stalking me and even calling me from a blocked number. I genuinely don’t understand it. I hate Virgos and please don’t get me started with them as friends!! 😒

What happens when Aries man falls first ??

We've known each other only a short time (to me) and no emotions are there for me. He recently said ILY during fun time.

We aren't exclusive and not even a day before we discussed this [more than friends, less than lovers]. I was clear that I'd be dating to my leisure but that its just not a personal focus for me rn. Not even a day later he was saying ILY between kisses. (2.5 times! I think he was looking for a reaction the first time and he was muffled halfway through that last one.

Maybe I should walk? That feels like the best choice, but I also was just curious and trying to understand the mind of an Aries man.

Like, maybe, he was just trying to get a reaction. I'm confused but I also don't want to bring it up. Is this a fleeting "fall in love in 3 business days and fall out in 5" type of thing?

i’m curious on all you aries that can stay friends with someone you’ve been in a relationship or had sex with. when i’ve gotten naked with another person and things get messy and tangled i can’t do it, if there’s nothing left there and nothing holding us together i cannot force myself to be friends. i’ve been broken up with quite a few times and am always told “we can still be friends” but like why? would? i ? want? that? idk if this is cold or unfeeling, i just can’t do all that, if im done and you’re done than what’s the point of pretending we’re friendly??

curious on if that’s an aries trait or if im just a stone cold bitch :)

My intention here is just gathering in support for a moment. I would love to hear about your relationship with your sibling and how it's affected you.

I have a sister with a 12H stellium and it's been such a turbulent time. She's somehow managed to be a decent sister to me for 90% of our lives but there's a couple of times it got really shady and straight up back stabby. I long for a connection with her where it's stable and consistent and I just don't get that.

It's had an intense effect on my life and I try to be there for her and compassionate of her struggles but damn does it get tough a lot.

Curiosity got me after a conversation with a friend. As an Aries what sign has been the one to lie to you the most in a relationship? Mine has been a Taurus with a Gemini coming in a close 2nd.

I’m usually pretty self confident about my personality and looks.. but due to his career he interacts with a lot of REALLY beautiful women and while I’m physically attractive I’m still on the average side… he is also ridiculously handsome and I started to feel like he’s out of my league.

Suddenly I’ve become too aware of the physical traits I don’t like or that I have ‘enhanced’ or hidden in my social media.. everyone picks the best photos when publishing and while that is normal I fear he will be disappointed with how I look (I mean it’s not excessively different, but I have uploaded photos mostly of when I had much better skin since I’m currently struggling with some acne and stuff like that, to name an example.)

I know Aries like confident people but suddenly the idea of meeting irl has made me really self conscious..

I don’t really know where I’m going with this. Maybe some advice from Aries people? He’s a man btw

Edit: for some context, I’ve been adjusting meds for the past two years and they greatly affected my looks. I gained a ton of weight (which I’ve mostly lost), my hormones are all over the place (slowly getting better but I’m still fighting some acne) and also lost a ton of hair (which O just started treatment for but won’t see results for a while). The attempt to improve these things have been for my own confidence, but I still feel like I’m not where I’d like to be to feel as confident as I used to be and I’m anxious about the state he’ll see me in

Guys, I’ve got a quick question for you all.

When you fall out with someone, do you ever reach out to them again? Could be an ex, FWB, acquaintance, reddit D.M friend, colleague whoever. I’m kind of the Aries who doesn’t. Once I’ve fallen out with someone & we’ve gone our separate ways, I usually leave it there. No dramatic blocking, no revenge arc, no 3 a.m. profile investigations. I’m not running a background check. I can genuinely wish someone well + still have absolutely no desire to bring them back into my life or at-lest in a talking term. I can genuinely wish someone well & still have absolutely no desire to bring them back into my life or be on talking terms with them. That, in some people’s books, makes me arrogant, cocky, selfish, even inhuman.

Maybe it’s the Aries fire in me, but I’ve never really understood the "Hey, it's been xyz years, maybe we should talk again" approach. If there’s no bitterness left & I still don’t feel like reaching out, I don’t see why time alone should change that. 😂 Personally, I don’t think every person you’ve lost touch with needs a reunion episode.

So, what’s your take?

Do you give people a 2nd chance after a fallout, or once you’ve decided you’re done, that’s pretty much the end of the story?

Like in bed or talking or anything intimate with them why must we needa be destroyed for y’all.

Otherwise in everyday life u support us hella much more than anyone and u want us to achieve the biggest things.

But like why when we’re together why do we have to be come the most immobile doll lmfao