r/AriesTheRam

Looking for Aries memes to help me chill out with my Aries SO

Can anyone share some funny Aries memes? Need the laugh (and reminder) before I snap at my special Aries (who doesn’t deserve it… okay maybe a teeny tiny little bit lol)

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u/OtterTealFish — 4 days ago

Is deleting 20 years of social media accounts on "pure impulse" an Aries thing?

I can't speak for every aries, but some of us are just naturally impulsive by nature​ & we love pretending we make calculated moves, when our actual default setting is usually "see red, act now, sort out the mess later". ​To be clear, I’m not depressed, heart broken​ or anti-social by nature. I actually love connecting with high-energy folks who talk substance without preconceived notions. But I’ve noticed people around us always mistake this impulsive drive for anger & snobby nature, when usually it's just a desperate need to cut through noise.

Prime example: I joined both Facebook & LinkedIn back in 2006. Yesterday, realizing both platforms had devolved into "an endless loop of toxicity, cringe everyone venting, nobody listening or sharing any constructive prespective / feedback to someone who's already undergoing some sort of problems in his / her life. I just hit delete on both 20 years old a/c's on pure impulse. No 2nd thoughts, Zero backups, zero hesitation, clean sweep. ​Now, since this morning, every time muscle memory makes me reach for my phone, I just stare at a blank screen wondering if I finally found peace or just erased 20 years of my life on a whim.🤷🏻‍♂️

​Anyone else ever pull a reset this drastic on pure impulse?

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u/calmcowboyy — 4 days ago

Changes in aries

I've been backstabbed and backdoored soooo much this year. I've lost so many friends and family and went deeply into hermit mode to fix myself. I have been seeing so many social media post about aries going thru the same things and about how we as a collective are: cutting off people who don't serve our highest good, going into hermit mode, fixing and improving ourselves and prioritizing our life and happiness. This is true for me, I was wondering is that true for anyone else?

We made a discord for Aries by Aries https://discord.gg/u38DJbRUv

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u/Agile-Yam2498 — 4 days ago

my heart is too big

do any other aries out there constantly feel like they care about their friends and family more than they care about you? i’m always finding myself in situations where i think “i wouldn’t have done this to them”. i know we’re known for being loyal and protective but personally, it gets exhausting having so much love and consideration to give in my relationships and getting very little in return. sometimes i wish i cared less

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u/HumanClient6610 — 4 days ago

How do I know an Aries man is giving energy in conversations because he's interested in me or out of politeness

Hi, I'm a Cancer woman, and there is this Aries guy that I like. I met him a few months ago at my job because he previously worked there before I did. I remember instantly feeling like I found someone just like me. (Matching my "freak", if you will, because we kind of like the same niche). I think how passionate he is about his hobbies is what is most admirable and attractive to me. I decided to make the first move and ask if he wanted to be friends on Instagram back in May. It's been pretty ok so far. He's such a funny guy to talk to, and he isn't dry in our conversations whatsoever. Sometimes, he will send me voice messages or pictures. But we haven't necessarily had any moving/deep conversations yet. That's why I was kind of wondering if that's just his normal state of energy that he shows to everyone or something particularly different.

Edit: I also asked him if he maybe wanted to hang out one day to play music even though we were not really friends. He replied saying that we definitely could one day soon and said “Omg of course, we are friends, wdym”.

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u/Down2earthgirl — 3 days ago

march aries x august virgo wlw???

anyone know how compatible/incompatible a march aries (f) and an august virgo (f) are? and how would you know if a female virgo likes you?

no clue how or even if i should shoot my shot :( she’s a really lovely person but i’ve been getting mixed signals at best. could just be because we both have adhd and a lot of social anxiety but i really like talking to her (we’re in the same uni society) and i would like for it to go somewhere. if not, id just want to have confirmation that it’s not reciprocated so i can move on

i feel like i’ve seen a lot of comments about how virgo and aries aren’t really compatible in a relationship and it does kind of make sense to me because i can definitely see how the aries spontaneity and chaos would clash with the more pragmatic and organised virgo approach.

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u/Upbeat-Poetry9149 — 5 days ago

I like this Aries guy who has an Aries Stellium Aries sun mercury Venus Saturn

I really like this Aries guy I’m a libra with a libra moon and Taurus rising. He also has a libra moon and a Taurus rising. We have good chemistry good conversation but sometimes he goes distant when this happens I like to just give him a space but I’m also trying to figure out for myself. How do I navigate this situation better I’m wondering if there are any Aries people here with an Aries Stellium specifically in sun, mercury, Venus, and Saturn, who can give me some insight on how to build a bond with this person while also giving them their space

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u/libragirly33 — 5 days ago

Aries Sun and Moon, Scorpio Rising

Anyone else with these signs? I feel like I very much do and do not resonate with Aries stereotypes. I don’t know much and would love to hear more insight.

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u/onlyfransa — 7 days ago

I used to be so social, comfortable around strangers and never had any fear when meeting new people most of my child/teenage years. But now I am 21, feeling so anxious/self-conscious in social situations and even get awkward with people I know really well. I just want to be myself again..

I am an Aries sun Sag moon and Leo rising. I have an Aries 9th house stellium with sun, mercury rx, venus and north node. I have so much fire in me which I never was afraid to express, but for some reason now I don’t feel as comfortable and ‘myself’ with other. Its like as if I dim my fire to be safe, and I wonder if anyone else with a lot of fire experiences te same issue?

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u/Suspicious-Bed-7281 — 6 days ago

Anyone else get called intimidating?

I've been called intimidating for so long now by so many different people. Even my boss said I'm an intimidating person, but I really don't feel like I am! I think I'm very soft personally, like I don't have the classic Aries temper and I've got a lot of water in my chart 🤷

My Aries husband also gets called intimidating but to each other we think we're soft as kittens and find the whole thing very confusing.

Anyone else seen as more intimidating than most here? Do you feel like you're an intimidating person or do you equally not understand where the perception comes from?

Lemme know!

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u/TrickEase — 13 days ago

My chart makes zero sense and I'm exhausted 💀

I'm an Aries Stellium (Sun, Mars, Mercury) in the 4th house, with a Sagittarius Rising and Leo Moon, so yeah super fire dominant on paper. But then my other placements like Taurus Venus (6th house) Capricorn Jupiter & Neptune (2nd house) and Pisces Saturn (3rd house) are the complete opposites and it feels like a constant internal tug of war.

​People sometimes think I’m fake or unpredictable because they just can't place me 🤣

Before I got into astrology I honestly kept asking myself what was wrong with me. But seeing my chart made so much sense I want to sprint but my grounded Taurus and Capricorn placements demand structure and stability, while my Pisces Saturn adds a super deep, sensitive layer.

​Does anyone else experience this total clash in their chart? Lately, the energy feels so extreme. Some days I feel like I have the energy of 10 people, and the next day I'm completely drained and empty. It honestly feels like I'm evolving and changing on a weekly basis, and it's exhausting!

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u/Striking-ram-96 — 12 days ago

Anyone here with a strong sense of justice?

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Anyone else here have an almost overwhelming sense of justice? Something happened recently that really got me thinking about it.

I was out running errands when I witnessed a man easily over six feet tall get into an altercation with a woman who couldn't have been more than 5'3". She was just doing her job, apparently telling him something he didn't want to hear, when he suddenly punched her in the face.

She went down hard. By the time she got back up, she had a black eye forming and blood pouring from what appeared to be a broken nose. She was crying, bleeding profusely, and clearly in shock.

Something in me just snapped.

I confronted him, things escalated, and we ended up in a physical altercation. We tussled, and I ended up beating him pretty badly before other people stepped in and separated us.

As far as I'm concerned, It really pisses me off to no end when regular people who are just trying to get by in life get attacked or fucked over for no reason.

I don't go around looking for fights, but seeing some oversized asshole put his hands on a woman half his size simply because he was angry was more than I could stomach.

And honestly, my thinking at the time was, Since he likes putting his hands on small women, I figured he could try and take a swing at a man closer to his own height.

The woman got medical attention, authorities were involved, and I walked away with a few bruises and plenty to think about.

I understand that getting physical isn't always the answer, and maybe I should have handled things differently. But I genuinely don't know how I could have stood there watching that happen and done nothing.

I've always wondered if my Libra placements have something to do with this. Maybe it's that stereotypical Libra need for fairness and balance, but seeing someone being mistreated, especially someone who can't reasonably defend themselves, brings out a fiercely protective side of me.

TLDR does anyone else here have that kind of instinctive reaction to injustice? Where seeing someone innocent being mistreated immediately makes you feel compelled to intervene? Sometimes I wonder whether having such a strong sense of justice is a blessing or a curse, because I honestly couldn't live with myself if I had just walked away.

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u/NoTraining2909 — 12 days ago

Looking for Community

I don’t really have anyone in my real-life social circles that I can talk about astrology with, but I’m genuinely fascinated by it and love learning more about it every day.
My Big Three are Aries Sun, Aries Moon, Libra Rising, and I’m looking to build, at the bare minimum, an online community of people I can actually nerd out about astrology with.
I want to talk about astrology beyond the surface level: planets, houses, degrees, aspects, symbols, transits, synastry, chart interpretation, all of it. I love going down the rabbit hole and learning how all the different pieces of a chart interact.
I know a lot of people mainly engage with astrology through Sun signs, and there’s nothing wrong with that, but I’m really looking for people who enjoy getting deep into it and can talk about charts and transits for hours.
So if you’re also looking for people to nerd out about astrology with, feel free to comment or message me. I’m down to start a group chat on any application. I’d love to meet people I can learn with, exchange interpretations with, debate with, and hopefully build some genuine friendships around astrology.

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u/Altruistic-Web-2726 — 12 days ago

Aries men: what is it about Leo women that draws you in?

I’ve dated 2 Aries men before, and both times the chemistry was honestly electric and intense. There’s just something about the Aries–Leo dynamic that feels ridiculously magnetic. So I'm a bit curious about knowing Aries POV .

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u/Leo-Queen99 — 12 days ago

DAE need a break

I feel like Aries have been going through it especially with Chiron and now Saturn. It's been a battle for like 3 years lol

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u/Sky_Candy11 — 12 days ago

I seem to be the problem 🤦‍♀️

Aries Sun

Capricorn Rising

Scorpio Moon

Its been a tough decade for me. Mostly it is my emotional state. And I feel that affects quality of life and external environment. Every format of relationship is conflict.

Id be grateful for any advice at this point.

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u/Motor_Art_5125 — 13 days ago