r/AriesTheRam

I work one day a week, 12-hour shifts with a colleague. We’ve built a deep connection over a year. I’m a Taurus (laid back), she’s always commented on customers liking me, asks about my marriage plans, and I ask her too. She’s given me dating advice. When I mention other women, she reacts. Feels like she competes for my attention sometimes.

Recently we argued because I said men shouldn’t cry in front of their partner. She went 0–100, brought up her ex crying. Next day, she was quiet. I texted her to enjoy her holiday and joked about our disagreement. She replied it “wasn’t that deep” and nothing to agree on. I said I valued her opinion and respected her.

It’s not romantic but not fully platonic. How do you read this?

Hey, I just wanted to say how amazing Aries can be. They are some of the most honest people I have ever met. Because of that, they are very straightforward, genuine, kind, and strong. And that goes for Aries women as well, not just men. I have really met some Aries women and thought they were perfect. That is the exact word that came to my mind.

I know Aries people who literally say things exactly as they are. If they like someone, they say it. If they are monogamous, they are monogamous. If they become polyamorous, love attention, and want a lot of it, they also say it directly. No games, no secrets, no confusing hints. And this is true in everything I have noticed about them, they are very alive.

If they feel bad, they don’t hide it. They can cry, show their emotions openly, and be very real and emotionally vivid. And I always looked at that and thought, “Wow, you are so open.” I don’t even know the exact word for it, but I think it is really cool.

And sometimes it is hard for me to watch this, because when such sincere people end up in the wrong relationships, especially their first relationships or first love, they go all in, while the person next to them might not be right for them at all.

I would also add that they can be especially unique in their youth, with their own style and philosophy. And they often don’t care about other people’s opinions.

So yeah, respect to Aries ❤️

With love, a Libra

It's just an observation. As an Wind zodiac there's always this stigma that I am a player but everybody else is just worse, degenerate, & nasty.

I'm happy for the Aries woman but sometimes I don't wanna get sloppy seconds from her boyfriend or her situationship because they're not well groomed men.

I’m curious if there are any real patterns here. What sign are you most physically drawn to and what is it about them that does it for you?

Aries Sun woman with Capricorn moon and Pisces rising/Venus.
Just airing this out a little. Could never figure it out. May Gemini men always ruin me.
June Geminis I can laugh eternally and adventure with. I have two best friends(one guy, one girl) that are June Geminis.
The May Geminis are instant attraction, almost like they choose you the moment they lay eyes on you and decide you belong to them.
I’ve witnessed this unfolding firsthand. I seriously think I can sense them before I find out their birthdate.
Two of my Gemini exes had the same birthday.

With these men, it’s all stare into your soul with love drunk puppy eyes, witty banter, borderline mean teasing, mischievous laughter, dedicating music to you, nonstop memes, touching you like you’re a national treasure.
Then…
It’s explosive anger, possessiveness, jealousy, social media stalking, projecting, cheating, gaslighting, and rewriting of stories. Yup, they can’t have just one woman for long.
And yet these men ALWAYS end up so possessive I can barely have a conversation with another man without a “who the fawk is that?”
God forbid I even laugh with another man. But whyyy tho.

Yet I can’t seem to unclench. They’re intoxicating troublemakers. What a thrill that I don’t know what twin/personality I’ll get that day?
It doesn’t help that they’re usually obsessed with me as well. Never works out in the end, but we can’t stay away from each other.

Anyone else feeling it with the Geminis?

Hi I'm a 20 year old Aries Man ♈ my birthday is on the 3rd of April, throughout my 20 years of existence on this earth I've began to notice a pattern, I seem to always attract Virgo's ♍.

Not that it's bad thing, most of the Virgo people I've encountered are quite lovely people, I just think it's kind of a weird phenomenon that literally every person who's made such an impactful impression in my life were born under the sign of Virgo

Every close friend I've made (or had) for the past decade was a Virgo and even the girl I'm currently crushing hard on right now is a Virgo, which is strange because if recall most places say that Aries and Virgo's aren't compatible or at least don't get along very well but I get along with Virgo people just fine so I'm just wondering what is the correlation? What is it about me that attracts so many Virgo's into my life?

Does anyone or has anyone had a similar experience? If so please share

Thank You!

I genuinely feel like burning my entire house down and running straight into a volcano or something rn. I keep trying so hard to control it, but the more I suppress it, the sadder I get… and somehow that sadness turns back into anger again. It’s exhausting!

I really don't care about dating or relationships in general. I'm just curious what your experiences are with Libra men. Haven't seen him for 2 days and feel like im missing something. Which is rare considering I feel nothing.

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I always have struggled with the balance with sharing knowledge, not sure if I can pinpoint it exactly to my sun sign of Aries, however I have struggled with how that information I share (which is 90% of the time accurate) is taken as a challenge of intellectualism or dominance. Most the time I'm sharing info or what I deem as fun facts its taken really lightly as if I don't spend my free time educating myself over the fear of being accused as wrong. A lot of the time it feels really isolating. I bite my tongue in most situations because I don't want to belittle anyone or be a smart ass demanding to be proven right. While I'm biting my tongue it can get close to drawing blood(I joke, I Kid.) It gets hard when it feels like every sentence stated by me is questioned for its accuracy even by my closest friend and family.

At this point in my life, I've come to terms with the idea my intellect will be questioned often. My struggle is more so with how do I cope with the feeling of being challenged and not rising to the occasion of a dual which could escalate tensions or conflicts derived from miscommunication.

Have any other Aries struggled with this? How do you cope with it if so? Are there any coping mechanisms?

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

- Aries Sun, Cancer Moon, Gemini Rising with Mercury in Pisces and Venus in Taurus. Oh and that pesky Scorpio Mars lol.

Both are in Aries right now and my whole month is just a series of No's from the universe. Every single thing I'm requesting is denied. I'm working so hard and yet denied. Sometimes unfairly too, for example I was a front runner for an interview and I found out the recruiter withheld my resume from going to the next round in favour of another candidate.

I just can't anymore I'm so tired. I'm pushing and trying and all I get is another challenge, an uphill battle and disappointment.

Does anyone know when things will get a bit easier? Aries sun, libra rising here

Hello ram fam! 🩵 Is it just me or has anyone else just been really on edge since Friday? Like cranky and anxious? It could be and probably is my environment/relationships/ new adhd meds but, I got snappy with an engineer at work on Friday, feel kinda neglected and unfulfilled in my relationship or that I'm missing connection somewhere something's missing, I'm tired of getting up early for o.t at work and the kids being to loud when I'm trying to sleep and my house being too cluttered. Normally I can find something healthy to help relieve or reduce this feeling but, I'm struggling this week. I'm also missing connection like I have no friends lol. Am I the only one?

Honestly, calling it "rage" doesn’t even come close to describing what I’m talking about. There aren’t enough words for this feeling. So I’m putting it out here, tell me I’m not losing it, ladies. Lol

To which I laughed. He said, no I’m serious have you thought about it? Men want an agreeable wife. I’m not offended, cos I don’t care what others think (too much), and he wasn’t being mean.

This Aquarius man I hung out with 3 times, have mentioned my single status maybe every time. We met on a dating app, but I told him I wasn’t looking for a date. Just a good conversation, cos I was bored. I found him funny and interesting. We’re both in our 30s, I’m older.

I fought with him in our first conversation over a remark he made, then moved on and said let’s have coffee. He called me strange. After our first meeting he said I’m destined to be a cat lady, because I have depth and I’m a free spirit and there aren’t many people who are that way.

He said he was close to his sister, and that her and I would get along. He said he told his sister about me and said I was cool. (Mentioning this to give context, maybe he doesn’t hate me😂)

We got into an argument in our 3rd hangout and he said maybe I’m single cos I’m disagreeable. I told him he’s disagreeable too. He said maybe I need to think about it, I said maybe I need to find me an agreeable man. He said no I think you need someone who will be more disagreeable than you. I find all of this very hilarious btw. I don’t know why he’s fixated(?) on my singledom though. He asked if I resigned myself to being single? I told him I’m not doing anything to change it. I told him I actually think I’m too good for most men.

I firmly believe in the concept of if he wanted he would. In the past, a Virgo man who was my friend cut me off cos he said he feels he has stronger feelings for me than I do for him. I’m out here thinking.. you didn’t even put that much effort into winning me over but you’re out here complaining as if I’m wrong to be protective of myself? You want me to be open and just help you out? In this economy? I just genuinely think if someone really wanted me they would give it a real honest shot.

A Capricorn man seemed almost relieved when we ended a talking stage, as if I was too much of a handful. You guys, I’m really not that bad. I’m just loud and have opinions, but I’m actually a really easygoing person.

A Taurus man told me these insane things about his feelings for me, which I reciprocated, only to cut me off over having different religions. I’ve seen men change their entire lives for the woman they loved.

Maybe I am destined to be a cat lady. The gag is I’m allergic to cats. I think monkeys are cute though, maybe I’ll raise monkeys.

Disclaimer: I think most of these men suck but not because of their zodiac sign. I’m just using them as identifiers since this is a zodiac sub.

Im a pisces and My Aries ex got hurt about a comment I made in Tiktok about small private parts and he got offended bc i guess he had an insecurity before about his exes commenting about his private part, and took that repost personal. We were not talking at that time but when I reached out he said to leave him alone and that his feelings towards me have “died” and that he just thinks Im a shitty person. I told him that throughout the relationship i made efforts to keep the connection alive. He just didn’t respond to my message and it’s been over a month. Honestly i miss him, and i love him but i respect the fact that he’s hurt. And honestly if he doesn’t want to come back, that’s fine. But do you hate the person and never speak to them again? He kept me added on social media for a while but he kept ignoring me and posting stories so i felt bad and deleted him and he did the same. It’s been like that ever since.