Metamour and I don’t get along
My metamour (my long distance partner’s wife, coparent, and nesting partner) and I do not get along. She texted me saying that in my last visit I had hurt her feelings and she feels misunderstood by me. She also let me know that her boundary is that she wants physical space from me in her home (meaning I can no longer be there if she is there). She ended the text stating she is “okay” if my partner and I get an Airbnb
I’m sensing her trying to create hierarchy, but even if that is not the case I am feeling lost in how to navigate this