u/botbotbotboi

Metamour and I don’t get along

My metamour (my long distance partner’s wife, coparent, and nesting partner) and I do not get along. She texted me saying that in my last visit I had hurt her feelings and she feels misunderstood by me. She also let me know that her boundary is that she wants physical space from me in her home (meaning I can no longer be there if she is there). She ended the text stating she is “okay” if my partner and I get an Airbnb

I’m sensing her trying to create hierarchy, but even if that is not the case I am feeling lost in how to navigate this

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u/botbotbotboi — 1 day ago

Going to be solo backpacking for the first time this June.

I’d like to do a 3 day trip and start somewhere near weaverville outside of Asheville. Doesn’t need to be super high mileage but I want a good challenge and good views

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u/botbotbotboi — 18 days ago